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  Posted: 04/11/2018

  AYS31911 commented on the discussion Leading with love.

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  Leading with love

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  Last Reply: calirn13 04/12/2018

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  7 weeks ago I found out my husband of 7 years had been having an affair for a year. There were no red flags at all, we were still very connected and in sync, he was always around, etc. We decided to try and make it work by getting in to therapy ASAP, together and separately. Over the course of this time I was stunned to really see my husband's incredibly low emotional IQ. He's 35 and this is the first real tragedy he's ever experienced. I was his first girlfriend, first love, first everything....

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  Posted: 04/11/2018

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  Posted: 04/04/2018

  AYS31911 commented on the discussion Starting Over.....

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  Posted: 03/28/2018

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  Starting Over....

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  Last Reply: tiredmom1994 04/25/2018

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  3 weeks ago my world bottomed out. I've been with my husband for nearly 10 years, married for 7 and we've never had a single blowout fight. Our disagreements were very small and we worked through them quickly. There was no lack of love or romance in our marriage so imagine my surprise when he told me he'd been having an affair and was leaving. Some backstory: I was my husband's ONLY relationship - he had no girlfriends, no live in partners, etc. I was in various relationships before I met him,...

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  Posted: 03/27/2018

  AYS31911 commented on the discussion Don’t know what to do.

• Infidelity
  

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  Posted: 03/27/2018

  AYS31911 commented on the discussion Found out husband was snapchat messaging my friend.