Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I recently found out that my husband had been chatting for a while with a good friend of mine (female) through Snapchat. My husband and I are friends with both her and her husband (she is married too) and we hang out with them and another couple often and we all consider each other good friends, but she has been my friend since before I met him. This past weekend, we went out to dinner with her and her husband, and when she had a second alone with me she said she kind of wanted to come clean about the fact that she'd been talking to my husband through Snapchat quite often. She was pretty tipsy at this point and played it out like it wasn't a big deal, was just casual conversation but that she felt she needed to tell me. I asked my husband about it the next day and he said it was just 'bullshitting' and casual messages sometimes like "hey whats up," etc. However, he did say he realizes it does not sound good and he apologized and said he asked her not to send him any more messages through there. But I can't really get it out of my head. The fact that they were talking often and I didn't know. And the fact that it was on Snapchat, an app where all messages and pictures are deleted permanently after sent and viewed. It feels very slimy, and I can't shake being upset about it. I kind of just want to get some other thoughts on this, and ask what others might do in this situation?
Thanks
Cheating exists in secrecy. This woman's husband has a right to know what everyone else seems to know.
I would also ask your H to delete the Snapchat app on his phone and show you.
Remember, cheaters only admit to what they think you already know.
I am pretty sure there is more to this.
Your husband need to give up snap chat. Look at his snap count... if he only chats with her, you will soon see how far out of hand it had gotten.
Good thing she confessed and he apologized. There are texting capabilities on all apps... I would demand to have private immediate access to his phone, computer and all social media... even if it means signing into his kik and snap chat from your phone and wait for someone to contact him.
Sorry you are dealing with this...
BTW... this is cheating... hiding a secret relationship is cheating.. sex or not
Deleting snap chat and having his passwords would be a good first step.
Something more could have happened and further investigation into his activities is warranted.