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- I have not been on these pages as much lately as finally I am moving on, 5 years after getting divorced from my ex-H N/P. But I still like to check in from time-to-time to help others. It actually has not taken me 5 years to get better. I was...
- I also wanted to let the group know that I've passed the 2 year mark on a new romantic relationship after the horrors of divorcing my ex N/P. My new love is not at all N or P, quite the opposite. It is possible to feel love and joy for someone...
- I have been mostly away from this forum as my ex-H N/P has finally moved on and our custody agreement has ended. So, I am no longer forced to deal with him. He has moved away to another state, and secretly remarried (without telling his family...
- This is an outstanding article which reframes abuse from victimization, trauma, and helplessness to highlighting the many ways victims did resist over the years. Focusing on resistance is a positive that victims did for themselves or their family,...
- Sadly, I am in the process, long considered, of going no contact with my daughter.I divorced my N/P H 4 years ago, after a long and messy divorce. She has been angry with me, and I thought very stressed by all that happened, so I gave her the...
- Sadly, I am in the process, long considered, of going no contact with my daughter. I divorced my N/P H 4 years ago, after a long and messy divorce. She has been angry with me, and I thought very stressed by all that happened, so I gave her the...
- We had Fox News show "Outnumbered" on today, an a segment came on about men being more physiologically emotional, but showing it less due to cultural constraints. Called "Real Men Do Cry" in this segment, a lively debate ensued about men showing...
- I had a thought which really covers many situations I tend to see on these forums. During my divorce and now during co-parenting, I save any examples of my ex N/P's communications which demonstrate what he is really like and what harm he causes,...
- I had a thought which really covers many situations I tend to see on these forums. During my divorce and now during co-parenting, I save any examples of my ex N/P's communications which demonstrate what he is really like and what harm he causes,...
- I have seen a lot of posts about wanting justice or revenge against the N or P who has harmed you. Many worry that it looks like their N/P ex has moved on and looks to be leading a happier, more successful, or easier life than you are. Some wonder...
- I am an animal lover and I would never hurt an animal. I usually save them, LOL.But today I was outside with my dog and some birds came and sat on our back fence only about 20 ft away from us. They usually fly away, so I thought they were being...
- Here is an unusually insightful article written about a man about why men call women crazy, too sensitive, or other familiar derogatory terms. This is not targeted at those who are emotionally abusive or those with personality disorders, though he...
- I am just finishing an astounding book, which I believe addresses a lot of the worries we have about Ns and Ps, even though the book is not about that. I started to talk about this in another thread on the psychopath (P) forum. Here's the link to my...
- I am just finishing an astounding book, which I believe addresses a lot of the worries we have about Ns and Ps, even though the book is not about that. I started to talk about this in another thread on the psychopath (P) forum. Here's the link to...
- I've not only had my now ex-H uNPD/P/BPD in my life, but in my career I've encountered quite a few Ns or Ps, or just nasties, some of whom have really set me back, or prevented my moving up jobwise at critical times. One such person was proven to...