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  Posted by: try2loveme

  Posted: 03/24/2020

  try2loveme commented on the discussion Moving through emotions of quarantine.

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  Moving through emotions of quarantine

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  Last Reply: imjustme 04/05/2020

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  I'm having a really hard time. I'm so emotional, my boyfriend completely shuts down when I get emotional. It seems like a complete turnoff to him and the hardest part, we are quarantined in a tiny apartment. Normally I would go for a drive or walk and I feel like I can't because it isn't safe. I cried myself to sleep last night and now I'm on the way to crying myself to sleep tonight. I want him to ask me what's going on, for us to talk about life and how crazy things are right now and all we...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 03/02/2020

  try2loveme commented on the discussion Feeling like I'm making my relationship unhealthy.

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  Posted: 02/28/2020

  try2loveme commented on the discussion Recovering Heroin/Meth addict boyfriend dumped me.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 02/28/2020

  try2loveme became friends with mirandac.

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  Posted: 02/28/2020

  try2loveme commented on the discussion Left the addict, found love, I'm crazy making.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 02/28/2020

  try2loveme commented on the discussion Feeling like I'm making my relationship unhealthy.

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  Posted: 02/28/2020

  try2loveme commented on the discussion Left the addict, found love, I'm crazy making.

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  Feeling like I'm making my relationship unhealthy

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  Last Reply: try2loveme 03/02/2020

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  I never thought I would find someone I feel could be a forever love. Yet, I feel I have found that. I found someone I truly feel is an amazing person. Our relationship started out strong, but soon after getting together I realized his ex-wife would be a very contributing factor to our relationship. Because I come from a codependent past, I KNEW if I didn't stay strong with my mental healthy, this was a recipe for disaster. Dealing with an ex-wife of a very long enmeshed relationship is SUPER...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 02/28/2020

  try2loveme joined the group Healthy Relationships.

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  Left the addict, found love, I'm crazy making

  Posted by: try2loveme

  Last Reply: urbangardener 02/29/2020

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  2014 I left my addict boyfriend for the last time. I had been completely in love, thought I could change him. He swore he would stop using. I went to meetings and in those meetings, and therapy, I started to make boundaries I had never made. It was so hard in the beginning, I wasn't gentle with myself and I would make this very important boundaries about my worth, like "if you lie I'm leaving because I deserver open and honest." he would lie, and I would go back EVERY.TIME.When I finally said...