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  Posted: 08/20/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion Struggling and Lost.

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  Peonypower commented on the discussion what should I do.

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  Posted: 08/16/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion what should I do.

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  what should I do

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  Last Reply: Peonypower 08/20/2020

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  Hi friends, sorry for another post, this all keeps going on and on So it's been over 2 months since he made the final decision that he didnt want to be with me. Before that 6 months of pain and endurance to try and see if there was any hope. Lots of hurtful comments and I could see he was depressed, unstable mentally. I was trying to work through that with him if I could. Sometimes I think, well perhaps if he got through his mental health problems, he would go back to being the loving, kind...

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  Posted: 07/27/2020

  Peonypower became friends with Chloe_NYC.

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  Posted: 07/26/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion New beginnings are scary!.

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  Posted: 07/26/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion Not doing so well, how to hold it together?.

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  New beginnings are scary!

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  Last Reply: Peonypower 07/26/2020

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  Hello! How is everyone? I've posted a few times before, so grateful for the support you have shown me It's been almost 2 month since we finally agreed to divorce, 6 months of trying to make it work  before that. Looking back, I think he had decided to leave the very first time he sat down and told me we had problems... almost no point in those 6 months where I tried to get him to see differently but in reality he used me, gas lighted me and was cowardly to end it in the end. In hindsight I...

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  Peonypower became friends with ElizaSc.

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  Posted: 06/16/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion New here, final decision of divorce is very real.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 06/16/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion Not doing so well, how to hold it together?.

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  Not doing so well, how to hold it together?

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  Last Reply: Peonypower 07/26/2020

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  Hi, I posted before about my situation and you guys gave me so much strength. Basically we are now separated, discussing divorce options etc. Not talking other than that. I did find out the other day 2 things -1. all of his friends and family are telling him this is not the right thing to do, why give up on me/marriage. This info does not help me and makes me so angry tbh, they seem to think he'll regret it and come back. I won't have that (for me it's done) but it will be so hard to have to...

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  Posted: 06/05/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion New here, final decision of divorce is very real.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 06/05/2020

  Peonypower commented on the discussion New here, final decision of divorce is very real.

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  New here, final decision of divorce is very real

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  Last Reply: Peonypower 06/16/2020

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  Hi everyone, I'm new here (and to forums in general tbh!) Yesterday I saw my soon-to-be ex husband and we spoke about the process of divorce and finances. He left, I had a bath and cried my eyes out. It all feels very real - I keep thinking "this is the first night truely single", "this is the first day". I think I'm tormenting myself. It's been 5 months on and off, since the day he came home and told me things were not working and he didnt see a future with me. I saw he was hurting,...