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- Pardon the slightly off-topic post.Just a quick tip for our group, Healing Infidelity Through Faith, or others, where due to infrequent postings, you may not think to visit frequently and check if anything new has been posted.Go to our group's home...
- Pardon the slightly off-topic post.Just a quick tip for those on user groups like Rebuilding, Cheaters and Betrayed, Healing Infidelity Through Faith, or others, where due to infrequent postings, you may not think to go there and check if anything...
- In writing our book, I realized one of the issues commonly dealt with by BSs and CSs is the issue of love. For CSs, it can be whether what they are feeling is love for the AP, or whether they still love their spouse, and if so, in what way since...
- In writing our book, I realized one of the issues commonly dealt with by BSs and CSs is the issue of love. For CSs, it can be whether what they are feeling is love for the AP, or whether they still love their spouse, and if so, in what way since...
- I posted a new article in the News section. I run across both CSs and BSs that have a skewered concept of what love is. CSs often mistake the thrill of infatuation as the fullness of love, and *feel* in love with their affair partner. BSs can wonder...
- Just a note. I don't know if anyone else is experiencing this, maybe it is just me and Gabi. But while I get email notifications on threads I'm watching in the member groups like Rebuilding, I'm getting no emails on threads here ever since the most...
- One of the conclusions I've come to in going through the whole infidelity issue is a stronger sense of both what marriage is and how our society's cultural values tend to undermine it. This is a little bit of a long article, just as a warning.In...
- Thought I would mention that Gabrielle had a breakthrough the other day. She read a post on the Cheater's Forum that goingtobeok posted about how a serial cheater works. While not an exact match in all regards, the attitude and tactics the person...
- Yesterday, as Gabi was reading from a devotional we receive by email from our Church, something in there struck a side thought in me about forgiveness. Obviously one of the topics often discussed in these infidelity forums we are on.But some people...
- Gabrielle and I have finally wrote and put up the article on "Healing Steps for the CS" in the news library. She wrote the core of it in her journal entry, and I took it and fleshed it out. This is an article to help CSs know what they need to do to...
- Gabrielle and I have finally wrote and put up the article on "Healing Steps for the CS" in the news library. She wrote the core of it in her journal entry, and I took it and fleshed it out. This is an article to help CSs know what they need to do to...
- Gabrielle and I have finally wrote and put up the article on "Healing Steps for the CS" in the news library. She wrote the core of it in her journal entry, and I took it and fleshed it out. This is an article to help CSs know what they need to do to...
- What books have you read that you've found especially helpful?We've read the standards. Not Just Friends, which I highly recommend. In many ways, I think that should be required reading for pre-marital counseling as to what constitutes...
- Lately, we've been discussing the tendency of CSs to want to avoid talking about it. "I'm over it, it's in the past, I want to forget it and move on, so let's not drudge up the old affair and hold progress back."On the BS side, it should be a...
- I've written an article on the topic, since it comes up a lot, in the "news" section of my group. It is "faith-based" so be aware of that. But I know a lot of us deal with the...