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- Subject:Re: Where did you go?Hi. I often thought of you and the other forum members, but never quite found the words to put into print. I remarried last March, and moved to Oklahoma. I married another woman on the forum who you new as Met1974. We...
- After 43 years of being together in love and life, why do I feel guilty when I think of not wanting to spend the rest of my life alone. Those thoughts don't happen all the time, but when they do come so does the guilt. What right do I have to think...
- So I have my eye on the Poplar tree today that I want to remove. I don't know about this town, as I was quoted $500.00 by a company to have it removed a couple of months ago which I agreed to, and then never heard from that company again. That's...
- Sometimes I just feel like a hug from a woman. Not sexual, just a platonic hug even though I feel it would lead to tears. Am I just being soft, and weird?
- "In youth we learn; in age we understand". Marie von Ebner-EschenbachLately, I think not!
- Congratulations to all the women of this world for all you have done, and all you will do. The world would be a barren place without you, and you add light, love, and warmth to the men that are currently in your life, and have been part of your...
- It's like one huge trigger. It's like the sadness and emotions within any show is magnified ten fold. I still can't watch medical shows, and even the news can get bad. Music can get pretty bad to, even though I'm drawn to it.
- That's what it feels like, and when the grief wave strikes you have to try to breath. It can, but doesn't need to have a conscious trigger. The trigger can be in the subconscious, hence out of sight and mind. At 17 weeks it still happens multiple...
- Glenda would say that when I would state out loud what she had been thinking. I miss that connectedness to another human. The amputation analogy is real.
- Andersonlawre Spam reported.
- I woke up yesterday and didn't feel hopelessness and despair. What it was I'm not sure. Could it have been some form of optimism, or life trying to reassert itself. Whatever it was it's gone today, but I sure hope it comes back.
- It's been 4 months since Glenda passed. How is it that it seems like a long time ago, and like yesterday at the same time. How does the perception of time get so distorted?
- Does anyone else intentionally skip over the obituaries? And when the page comes up on the local paper and I'm not paying attention I invariably see someone that passed in their late 90's. What a ripoff.
- I would like to think some of our favorite pets would transition to an afterlife (if one existed), and be available to greet our departed spouses.
- Today I'm going to focus on replacing a chandelier. Although Glenda was only in our new house (to us) for approximately a month, she made clear her distaste for the chandelier. We brought the crystal one from the old house which was not expensive in...