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So I have my eye on the Poplar tree today that I want to remove. I don't know about this town, as I was quoted $500.00 by a company to have it removed a couple of months ago which I agreed to, and then never heard from that company again. That's happened more than once in this town. Could be the "maneana" attitude. My son is reluctant to assist. Maybe, doesn't trust me with a chainsaw. Do I trust myself with a chainsaw? Pretty much as that would be too messy. So I sit here on a sunny day with a coffee and ponder whether I tackle it. Since I woke up feeling pretty good, I just might do it. It definitely would be an ample distraction from the usual grief. Hmm...
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My advice is that you try calling your local company again. If you can't get them to do and have exhausted all other professional options check the internet for tree removal instructions. Read them while sipping your coffee and then decide if you want to take the job on yourself. If you do, please get another person to spot you. Any task requiring climbing or ladders needs a spotter. And climbing with a chainsaw? Maybe two spotters. One ready to catch you and one for the chainsaw if calamity strikes.
Good job Rick. In our grief it it all too easy to just let things go. You are an inspiration! Scott