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  Posted: 02/21/2022

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 02/21/2022

  dazedandconfused1964 became friends with violetmist.

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  Posted: 02/22/2022

  dazedandconfused1964 became friends with Honestguy38.

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  Posted: 02/22/2022

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• Loneliness
  

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  Posted: 02/21/2022

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• Loneliness
  

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  Posted: 02/21/2022

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• Loneliness
  

  Had to put this post somewhere....

  Posted by: dazedandconfused1964

  Last Reply: Bobby5000 02/22/2022

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  My life in the past 3 years is a series of one bad thing after another.  On what should have been one of the proudest nights of my life, when my oldest daughter graduated post secondary school, I was informed by my dad that my mom was going to be tested as her memory was not what it once was. 6 months later she was diagnosed with dementia. 18 months after that she would be dead.The pandemic struck in March 2020 and my workplace lost half its staff, including everyone in my department but...

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 01/01/2021

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• Loneliness
  

  Don't know where to turn

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  Last Reply: Bernadette529 01/20/2021

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  I've been a widower for 10 years. I managed to finish raising my two daughters on my own, have had the same job for over 17 years and find ways to keep occupied, even during the pandemic. My problem is loneliness...soul-crushing to the bone.I have spent more than half my adult life alone, as I did not meet my wife until I was 29, and then lost her at 46. I am 56 now. When you get widowed you first lose your married friends, then as your children grow up you no longer see the parents of their...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 12/31/2020

  dazedandconfused1964 joined the group Loneliness.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Trying suggestions for moving on

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  Last Reply: WeedPuller 11/10/2017

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  When you are suddenly out of a long term relationship, and especially so if you are an introvert like I am, you very quickly lose the sense of who you are. Today marked the 4 month mark for me and while I had been on dates with a few women, including one who I thought might have been someone special until many red flags popped up, I finally realized I still was not taking care of myself.  I was going to work, coming home, taking care of my dogs, going out only to get groceries. Finally I...

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  Posted: 10/31/2017

  dazedandconfused1964 commented on the discussion Just when I thought the black clouds were gone....

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  Posted: 10/29/2017

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  Posted: 10/29/2017

  dazedandconfused1964 became friends with Fallon13.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 10/29/2017

  dazedandconfused1964 commented on the discussion Just when I thought the black clouds were gone....