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  Roller coaster

  Posted by: Sunnyone

  Last Reply: Candice2244 07/02/2017

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  I wrote before. My husband was appointed a lawyer and is currently out on bail. He started counseling and even got himself a little job.Two weeks ago I found a lump in my breast, last Monday I found out it is breast cancer, and yesterday I had surgery.Today my husband's court appointed lawyer called. He got the plea deal offer from the DA. First he changed it to three counts of distribution, based on where my husband watched the porn, even though he didn't share files with others. Today the DA...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 05/17/2017

  Sunnyone commented on the discussion In a weird sort of purgotory.....

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  Posted: 05/17/2017

  Sunnyone commented on the discussion New here.

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  7 weeks in

  Posted by: Sunnyone

  Last Reply: rewdiazepam 04/21/2017

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  Today is Thursday. 7 weeks ago the police came to arrest my husband and his big secret came out and ripped our life apart like an EF5 tornado. Thursday's now have become like a trigger day. Thursday's are always bad days. In exactly one week will be my husband's hearing. We have no idea what's going to happen, since he has no lawyer. And the not knowing is really eating at me right now.I have heard from other women that went through similar life events, and it seems their husband's got "mild"...

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  Posted: 04/11/2017

  Sunnyone commented on the discussion Feeling alone.

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  Feeling alone

  Posted by: Sunnyone

  Last Reply: Amethy7790 04/16/2017

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  Today has been an up and down day. It's been 5 weeks and two days since my husband got arrested. Our kids were on spring break this week, and I couldn't do anything with them, since I had to work more hours. I'm grateful to have gotten more hours at work, but feel horrible not being able to spend as much time with the kids like they are used to. It's probably harder on me than on them.i feel like my husband left us all alone. I am not even from this country, and dealing with all this official...

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  Posted: 04/05/2017

  Sunnyone became friends with rewdiazepam.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 04/05/2017

  Sunnyone became friends with rewdiazepam.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 04/02/2017

  Sunnyone commented on the discussion New here.

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  Posted: 04/01/2017

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  New here

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  Last Reply: Sunnyone 05/17/2017

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  HelloI am new here, unfortunately. Four weeks ago the state police raided our home at 5:50am and arrested my husband on charges of distribution of child pornography. I had no idea he had those tendencies, and four weeks later I still can't wrap my mind around it. He is in jail awaiting his court date at the end of April.He lost his job of course, and I am scrambling to find a full-time job so my kids and I don't go homeless.The charges have changed to possession, my husband told me, but I...

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  Posted: 03/31/2017

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  Posted: 03/31/2017

  Sunnyone became friends with TeamDS.