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- Well I made it through the weekend without txting my STBX. I'm moving from denial to anger. But I have to just stay calm and get to 1/14/2017. The date when the divorce will be final. I want her to hang onto her guilt since they why she's leaving me...
- The curse of the billy goat is over. A Chicago native and life long cub fan and I couldn't make it past the 5th inning. Couldn't tolerate sitting in front of the TV by myself rooting for the Cubbies.My STBX wants to be freinds for life. I told her...
- Well, I think I'm moving from denial to acceptance and anger. How could a caring person "living her (our) dream" of farming in the middle of nowhere, married for 21 years, suddenly walk out on a 67 year old husband and stick him with a farm. I just...
- That's about the only way I'm making it right now.To think I didn't even know anything was wrong and to the papers are filed and we're on our way to then end (from my view, I'm sure it's the beginning from hers).Mu goal is to make it through each...
- Just returned from filing divorce papaers. Did it all myself, no lawyer. Will admit I spent over 40 hours preparing documents but this gets it done in record time. Hearing is mid-December with a 30 day waiting period to follow.Feel like a piece of...
- Off to the bank to have everything notarized then to the court house too file. I'm a bit anxious to say the least. I think that means we are within 6 to 8 weeks to being final. To think I only found out two weeks ago.Well, at least being a farmer...
- Having been through grief counseling for the death of my first wife I can say that his process seems quite similar.1. Denial and isolation; 2. Anger; 3. Bargaining; 4. Depression; 5. Acceptance. People who are grieving do not necessarily go through...
- Met my STBX at the bank for the signing of a QuitClaim Deed. She feels so guilty she is signing over our farm to me. I will say however I built this farm from nothing but rough fields and deserved the lions share but not all. I must admit she is a...
- Having a very lonely day. I work 266 acres in the middle of the Mark Twain National Forest. No friends or relative and no wife in the evening. I am setting a goal of not dating for six months at least once this is over. aAnd at my age never get...
- This is day 2 since I found out my wife was cheating. It seems like such a cliche. I don't understan why people hurt each other so. I understand that relationships don't always work out but why turn to some hovering vulture that sees a vulnerable...
- Hard to believe she moved out a week ago with no warning. Now I'm trying to put together a no fault divorce. Hours of paperwork. But I want it done quickly. If she doesn't want me then I want out as fast as humanly possible. Iguess I'll end up...
- Last week my wife told me she wasn't sure that she was in love with. She needed her space. We talked and she was going to work har on things. Something didn't feel right so I used the "Find my Iphone" app to track her and sure enough she was having...
- The love of my life of 21 years left me last week needed space and to find herself. Assuring me there was no one else. What a fool I was. She forgot she was married to a very intelligent man. I used the GPS device in her car and found out she was...
- Slept in until 4:30 am today. Feeling better for know. My wife is a wonderful person and i will do anything so that she can be happy. She's dealing with menapause and tried to fight it on her own. Now we're in this mess. Just wish we couldhave...
- In addition to my wife leaving me last week my dog died today. I feel like the lyrics to a country and western song.