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The End (almost)

1Daatatime
1Daatatime

Last week my wife told me she wasn't sure that she was in love with. She needed her space. We talked and she was going to work har on things. Something didn't feel right so I used the "Find my Iphone" app to track her and sure enough she was having an affair. I was shocked to say the least. At least now I have some anger and hatred to mask the other emotions.

mirandac
mirandac
Keep venting, journal, get into therapy,
Go to divorce care, Go to church. Get
plenty of exercise, eat right.

Keep pushing forward most of us have
Been there.

I am sorry for all your hurt and pain it
does Get better and there is light at the
end Of the tunnel as hard as it seems.

The rollercoaster of emotions and feelings
Are still going to come and go for quite some
Time while you grieve. HUGS
CrushedDad
CrushedDad
Hang in there! Keep reaching out whenever and however you can. Living well is the best revenge for all of us and focusing on that end goal will get us thru this hell. Take care of yourself.
NicoleWilliams
NicoleWilliams
I can only imagine how painful and difficult this situation can be for you. As deeply as you’re hurting, I urge you to find a way to stand strong. At this time, a healthy support system is vital so surround yourself with some encouraging people like friends or family or even try getting in touch with the support groups in your church. I will certainly be praying for you. May God bless and comfort you, brother.
aj2124
aj2124
I am so very sorry for your pain. It is still so fresh and it may be hard to imagine that you will be able to heal from it. What has her response been toward you since you found out? Have either of you discussed marriage counseling? It's hard when you feel like you have such a little control over everything going on. But you can choose how you react and how you cope. Choosing healthy coping methods will benefit you in the long run. Praying for you during this difficult time.