Women who Love too Much Community Group
WHEN BEING IN LOVE, MEANS BEING IN PAIN... This group is to help women through the journey of realizing they can love themselves. To help realize that they are capable of having a happy, healthy, whole relationship and break the cycle of abuse and heartache from loving emotionally unavailable men.
I adopted this from another site I visit from time to time. There are times when we are going crazy wanting to contact the ex- whether it be to bash them, hear their voice, look for a good moment, etc. We all know that contact is not acceptable to our healing. So...if you want to contact you ex.....type it here instead. Get it out, but don't give them the satisfaction of knowing you are thinking of them. I will start below......
"I went back to the DR today. I remember 6 months ago when you were so supportive. If it was Cancer, we would figure it all out. You said it would be fine. I was scared when I went to the DR today. I wanted to call you. I needed to hear your voice. Then I remembered how you spoke to me almost 2 weeks ago. I remember all of the promises you showered upon me on and off for three years, and ripped out from under me in three minutes. I remember all of the horrible things you said to me to make yourself feel better and justified. I still wanted to call you. I still wanted to hear your voice. I just wanted it to be the voice of the man I fell in love with, not the man you showed me you really are."
"I went back to the DR today. I remember 6 months ago when you were so supportive. If it was Cancer, we would figure it all out. You said it would be fine. I was scared when I went to the DR today. I wanted to call you. I needed to hear your voice. Then I remembered how you spoke to me almost 2 weeks ago. I remember all of the promises you showered upon me on and off for three years, and ripped out from under me in three minutes. I remember all of the horrible things you said to me to make yourself feel better and justified. I still wanted to call you. I still wanted to hear your voice. I just wanted it to be the voice of the man I fell in love with, not the man you showed me you really are."
UGH! I want to tell you how much I miss you! How much I love you and how I always will!!! Don't ever doubt that. But I can't talk to you, it hurts me more than missing you does. Why can't you be more open minded and flexible!? Why can't you do something to make this work??? You won't and you never will. I almost sacrificed everything for you, and I know in the end I would have lost everything, even you. My own son still wont talk to me because of this.