I am new to joining a group experience.
My wife of 20 years filed for prosa Divorce last week and is moving at warp speed to get our marriage ended.
we have had problems but both chose to ignore. Mine binge drinking once a weekend and Her a form of depression.
There never has been any type of abuse no legal issues and on the most part we got along good up until a week ago. I hurt her with my drinking over the years and have been in denial about alcoholism. I have sought help for my drinking and enrolled in a program.
I love my wife and realize now the damage drinking has caused. I am just broken inside. I do not want a divorce. I am giving her space and have left the house for over a week already I do have to go back and live in spare room. I have tried to talk to her but all she wants to talk about is how to split everything up and divorce. She refuses to talk about our marriage. She refuses to even consider any counciling.
everything I read says give space and time.
Looking for advise I'm hurting so bad inside. I've cried so much this last week.
I hope to share more with this group. I was not sure how to start.
Hi I'm need to this. How active is everyone in the group? I don't see much activity the couple times I've been on.
I can't believe I have been in this relationship for more than a year and nothing has changed. I can't even really call it a relationship because to him it's not that. I have been devoted to him, loyal and faithful to him. I stay home waiting for him to call or come over, I don't talk to anyone but my coworkers and family. I used to go visit my family alot but not anymore. I trust him with my...