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- Hello again, for a while tried the Facebook Group which does have more people and posts, with the disadvantage you need to request anonymity. Many remember my story wife seemingly happy for 30 years, like retirement, moved had many problems, severe...
- My therapist suggested I need to be more independent and go out. After a normal, 30 years of marriage, my wife developed severe anxiety and a seeming form of agarophobia where she wants to stay home. Today her good friend and a group I know had...
- Many of us deal with depression, we make mistakes, but imagine if not only a few people knew of marital problems, problems, discord, acrimony, lack of empathy, mistakes, not in front of a few people but say over a billion knew, with your frailties...
- My wife was happy and self-sufficient for 30 + years of marriage, received outstanding reviews as a nurse, retired, was happy with a nice schedule with her friends, then we decided to move there were challenges with a tough real estate market, and...
- This was a beautiful essay about dealing with a disabled child, but its message applies in many areas. You work to adjust in life even when you have unexpected challenges. Welcome to Holland I am often asked to describe the experience of...
- A suggestion and question about therapists. 1. Summary You will be speaking about friends, family, brothers, etc. Therapists can sometimes get confused, so Jack is the youngest, no he's the older brother, etc. Write out a 2-3 paragraph...
- Some people seem depressed because of a perceived lack of accomplishment. But being a good person, helping others, doing your best to make the world a better place is important in itself even if you don't have some of the other accoutrements. A...
- A lot of things involve perspective. We were fortunate to build a house in a development in a middle class area, when we moved in, it was a nice community, people made friends, and we even gave a party. Years later, my mother-in-law moved into...
- Most of you know our story, severe depression and anxiety about a problematic move where my wife largely blamed herself. I had told her good friend that my therapist recommended positive reinforcement and this is the friend's response. "You...
- I found this insightful-To liberate the children of Israel from the shackles of their servitude, it was not sufficient for Moses, their leader, to merely “go” to Pharaoh and have a peripheral vision of this leader’s strength. Moses needed to...
- Just saw this article with a different perspective about a woman who decided to stop dating, On a recent bank holiday, with nothing pressing to do, I baked myself a cake—two cakes, actually, so I could decide which recipe best satisfied my...
- Each day I can only try to do my best and that includes getting information, so I have some more questions for this good group, 1. Medication My wife stopped medication. More exactly, she didn't want to take it one day, hadn't take it the day...
- People in sports spend a lot of time on attitude and perspective. They just had the Jacksonville playoff game and the team was being dominated losing by 20 at half. In an amazing comeback, they won and there are some lessons on perspective,...
- Michigan played in the national championship semifinal just losing a tough game. The coach complimented his players on their work and effort. It's important to realize that success is not always the best criterion to judge yourself. You can...
- There are a lot of nice people and I wanted to thank you for your help throughout the year.