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  Posted: 03/01/2021

  TwoSteps commented on the discussion The day I exploded my life anniversary.

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  Posted: 02/22/2021

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  The day I exploded my life anniversary

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  Last Reply: alwyslve 03/16/2021

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  On this day a year ago I was dying to put days between there and here but things are not very different. My affair, 1st and last time, lasted 9 months:-My husband and I are still separated-My husband never wants to touch me again because another person touched me-He will not divorce me-We still share the dog, we didn't have kids-My affair partner and I still have had absolutely no contact since April 8-I spend most of my time alone-I still go to counseling 1x/week-I talk to my parents every...

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  Posted: 02/22/2021

  TwoSteps commented on the discussion Finding love wrongly.

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  Posted: 05/03/2020

  TwoSteps commented on the discussion needing some support - AP contacted me.

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  Posted: 05/01/2020

  TwoSteps commented on the discussion Is this what it's like?.

• Infidelity
  

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  Posted: 05/01/2020

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  Posted: 04/28/2020

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  Is this what it's like?

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  Last Reply: Remiah 05/02/2020

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  My husband and I aren’t able to discuss the affair yet (DDay Feb 8). We both went to IC when this first happened, and his counselor said they couldn’t talk about the affair until they talked about him because he has no emotions. He has been working with his counselor to connect to his emotions and so far he’s really only been able to connect to feeling sad for his siblings at some point in his childhood. He says he has never discussed the affair with his counselor beyond the first time...

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  Posted: 04/24/2020

  TwoSteps commented on the discussion needing some support - AP contacted me.

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  needing some support - AP contacted me

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  Last Reply: TwoSteps 05/03/2020

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  After my AP established a strict NC he made an attempt to contact me yesterday. I do not know what he said as it is in an app we used to talk and when he cut me off it was so difficult I deleted and never looked at the app again. The 72 hours before the NC was started was very confusing, painful and left me with some new wounds to carry into the worst of it alone. I had not seen him for 3 months but we occassionally talked on the phone. He always contacted me.The next three weeks have been...

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  Posted: 04/19/2020

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  Working through the Loss

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  Last Reply: TwoSteps 02/22/2021

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  I am overwhelmed with loss. My husband, my AP, I lost my business I was building with my AP so I am unemployed, several of my friends ended relationship with me over this as well.My husband is very, very hurt by my behavior. Of course, he should be. What I did was horrible. I met and started a business with a co-worker for 2 the past years. The last 9 months it became a physical affair. We did truly start out as partners to be successful and build a dream that would secure both of our...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 04/19/2020

  TwoSteps joined the group Cheaters ONLY!.

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  Posted: 04/19/2020

  TwoSteps commented on the discussion Still at Day 1 in Ten Weeks.