Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
It's been 10 weeks since my 9mo affair was exposed by my AP's wife. It was very traumatic for my husband. She called him and left a VM while I was calling and driving home to tell him. My AP is back with his wife, no contact to me nor me to him. My husband is in counseling and I am in counseling. There are A LOT of details, we have been married for 23 years, no kids, no other affair behavior, neither of us know if we want to save the marriage.
In my husbands counseling of 10 weeks they are only talking about his childhood and that he is not connected to his emotions at all. They don't talk about him and I or the affair, only him. What does this mean? My husband and I have never even talked about the affair yet.
Is this normal?
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My best friend ruined my day with her immature, bitchy self. If she doesn't get her way, she has a tizzy fit. I told her weeks ago that I couildn't go to yard sales with her on 9/12 because i have a hair appointment. She wasn't happy. I also told her that I don't have any money to go to yard sales. She tried to talk me into going to more yard sales by saying that if I don't go, there...
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The Friday before Labor Day just before we left, the options given to me basically were either quit of be fired, and if I were to stay on I were to be put on an improvement plan, which is pretty much synonymous with getting fired. I was going to do the improvement plan and just ride it out until I found another job due to money and due to the fact that I did not want to quit without another job....
How about also being in marriage counseling, the two of you together? I believe that type of counseling will focus on getting the marriage back together.
10 weeks isn't that long. This journey will require time, patience and understanding.
Going forward without him is scary but going back sounds like prison. I've been told that EFT will heal marriages that have a chance and reveal marriages that don't. I don't necessarily know what that means but the future is not well defined.
I hope the EFT therapy brings you the answers you need.