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  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 02/16/2026

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  They didn't send my sister away from her group home. She has been less violent and better since I talked to her, and I guess actually got soem sleep.

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  IT has been a while

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 02/12/2026

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  So my sister was placed in a group home. We got her settled in pretty well and she has been there for about 4 months. She has a person with her all the time and gets very anzious if no one iw with her, but she is also restless, doesn't sleep well missign days without it, and is not peaceful, throwing things, pushign and p[ulling the ones thta stay with her and hitting them at times. She had a bad day today, much worse than usual, and the Group home is concerned that they wil not be albe to...

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  I visited my sister Friday

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/12/2025

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  It seems that it has blown over, I havne't noticed peopleacting differently around me and no one spoke to me about what happened.My sister said she wna't feeling well, was tired, but she was talking to me. She was able to converse with me and she even laughed for the first time in a month. I have been pryaing all along that she would get bettter or even miraculously, God's will be done, evenbecome better than before this all started, and tho I think some of my prayers have come true, like no...

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  Is it just me?

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/10/2025

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  or am I being over sensative?My brother has som ekidn of virus or soemthing and so isn't able to visti my sister, as he ahs been once or twice a day. I think this is too much, and done'st alow her to get into any kind of routine where she is but is always being disrupted by his visits. Anyway, because he is sick he claled and asked if I could visit her today,e ventho Ihad visited yesterdy and plan to tomorrow, but I had just had a tooth pulled and wnas't in the mod to do anything. It was sore...

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  I was never contacted.

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/08/2025

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  It is Wednesday and I usaually visit my sister on this day each week. The place never contacted me by they told my brother than I wasn't to visit her, but he called them and they said I could but that they didn't want me to tel lher no since that seems to set her off, and I should try to not get upset with or argue with her.The visit went wihtout any problems th my sister is nto getting at al better. She was not at all conversatoinal only saying maybe two things that were specifically addressed...

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  The only good thing and surprising

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/06/2025

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  My brother dind't go crazy on me like I thought me might. I called him when I got home to tell him what happened before he could hear it from someone else, but he didn't answer. A few horus later he returned my call, and I told him what happened and he had already been called and knew their side of things at least, I don't know what they told him, or what their side is other than that I had slapped her, but he wasn't mad or upset or acting crazy about it at all. Hw only asked if I had pulled...

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  Gaaaah!

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/06/2025

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  I am feeling so bad about what happened. I have never slapped my sister before. I didn't want to slap my sister, today. It was a very light slap only the tips of my fingers brushed her check and lip, not very hard at all. It was an accident, but I can't deny that it happened, or was a slap. as light as it was. It wans't something I planned, decided to do, or wanted to do, it just happened because I moved my hand too close to her when I was trying to clean her teeth, and moved my arm too quickly...

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  Hug

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/05/2025

  kluu sent a hug to Lilysawyer

  I could be better. I'll be a lot more able to deal with life once my sister is placed somewhere she can be happy and healthy.
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  Aaargh!

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/05/2025

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  The anxiety is building within me already. It is not beyond wht I can handle, but I'm starting to feel noxious, and it has only been half hour since I wrote the last entry. I hope that whatever is going to happen doens't take too long, or it is going to eat away at me mentally and physically.

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  Incident at Lisa's care facility

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 10/05/2025

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  I was visiting Sunday Morning.Normally I would take Alisa to church on Sunday but for the last few times she wasn't in any ability to go, moody negative demanding, contrary, jut not sociable.So, I stayed to visit with her instead and she was all these things and had lost her glasses. She asked to go outside and we did but after a few minutes she asked to go back inside. She asked for water and they gave it to her she took one sip and threw it on the ground. We played a game of UNO, but she...

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  Update,

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 09/23/2025

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  My brother and I were awarded conervatorship over her well being, not her finances.I am not feeling very stressed right now, but I am worried about what is to become ov my sister. My brother stil bothers me but it is the normal kind not the more stressful type of bother.My sister is not doing well, and is getting worse. She is able to talk, and eat, and is mobile, which is better, and miraculously she no longer needs to be on oxygen. It is not her physical health that is getting worse, but her...

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  My sister has left the Hospital

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 09/05/2025

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  She is no longer in the Hospital but she is nto in a permanent houseing unit, yet. IT may turn into ti but it is nto wht I wnat for her. IT is a convelescence type place nto a good permanent home seting, She may be happy there for now but it wil never be personalized and her home but jst a palce she is being kept, IMO. My brother is supposed to be still looking for a better place, but I do not know if he still has theheart for it. He seems to jsut wnat to get it over with and not be so...

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  Udate

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 09/01/2025

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  My sister is still in the hospital. She was suppsoed to get out but she acted up again.It si ony 2 pm and I am already exhausted.

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  Almost a week later

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 08/28/2025

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  My sister was supsoed to be moved to a new place today, but she had acted up yesterday and this morning and so they coudlnt let her otu of the hospital. There is a rule that before being released to go into another facility the patient has to be without incident or being restrained for 48 hours.My sister is very frustrated and fed up with being in the hospital and I dont blame her but she dones't udnerstand thta acting out about it is what is keeping her there. I tried to get this thru to her...

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  Hospital visits are far too wearying.

  Posted by: kluu

  Posted: 08/22/2025

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  It isn't a big thing, a 7 mile drive both ways, a qaurter mile walk to her room from parking, and a couple hours with my sister. but it has become physically and mentally draining. Having to put up with her moods, her contrariness, her little fits, and even sometimes physical abuse, is frustrating and tiring. I dread this daily routine which interupts the middle of my day, and causes me such stress and anziety. I do not know how much longer I can put up with it.