Incident at Lisa's care facility

I was visiting Sunday Morning.

Normally I would take Alisa to church on Sunday but for the last few times she wasn't in any ability to go, moody negative demanding, contrary, jut not sociable.

So, I stayed to visit with her instead and she was all these things and had lost her glasses. She asked to go outside and we did but after a few minutes she asked to go back inside. She asked for water and they gave it to her she took one sip and threw it on the ground. We played a game of UNO, but she didn't want to play again or any other games. She kept asking for a snack, and even yelled it like an order. Then she moved away from me and started grabbing people, bumping into them. I went to look for her glasses. When I came back without them she was swearing at people, saying the F word. I notices her teeth were filthy. I was trying to clean her teeth adn mouth, and she swore at the attendant near by syaign she wnated him to go away, and calling them a Bitch. I raised my hand to shush her, to put my hand in front of her mouth, and said stop cussing, but I was closer than I thought since I had been cleaning her teeth, and my finger tips made contact with her right cheeck and lip. It was not hard at all, but it looked like I slapped her. I hoped the attendant would think nothing of it. But I was worried.

I was not intending to slap her, and it wasn't hard but she said, "They hit me, They are mean," and started wimpering a bit, I siad, "I am only trying to clean your teeth. stop whining." I didnt want her to get someone in trouble by saying that the were hitting her so I said, "They aren't mean, I'm mean. Now let me clean out your mouth. Its filthy." and while doing that I was teling her she needs to stop cussing at people, throwing things, and grabbing people, that she needs to be nice.

I then went to find her glasses and when I cam back antoher attendant was there, syaign that the other was takig a break, but he was appearantly reporting that I slapped eh since the nurse came and asked to talkl with me and asked if I slapped her. I had to say I did since, well, I did, even if it was an accident, and barely finger tips, and not hard. So they asked me to leave. I cna't come back until they deal with it.

I am now waiting for them to make contact with me. I have no idea what that may mean. It really was an accident, and I had never hit her before, ever. I fear that she is in no state to attest to this, tho, so I have no idea what may come of it.

This happened between 11, and 11:30 October 5th, 2025.

I'll post more once I find out what is going to happen.