meandgeppetto

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• Breakups & Divorce
  

  She’s gone..

  Posted by: meandgeppetto

  Last Reply: finallyawakenow 10/24/2018

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  Although this is not at all what I expected to happen, my marriage is over. Technically though, we will be married for another year. My wife left tonight after the hardest two weeks of my life. I have been waiting in limbo for her to drive out of town to go live with her parents. Here I am, in the home we made together all alone. My cat is looking all over for his brother that she has taken with him and it breaks my heart. I chose to be civil, to be amicable, and to make this is easy as...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Closing the door

  Posted by: meandgeppetto

  Last Reply: Spr167 11/02/2018

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  Today is the day. The day that my wife removes her final belongings, takes one of the cats, and drives away from me for the last time. I always promised that if she chose divorce, that I would remain civil and make it as amicable as possible. I have upheld that promise and made sure not to turn to my old ways of being vengeful and nasty. I am struggling, because although I have been aware of our problems, I really didn’t see this coming. I have asked if we can go to counseling and when she...

• Life After Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: meandgeppetto

  Posted: 10/23/2018

  meandgeppetto commented on the discussion Another Lonely Newbie.

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 10/23/2018

  meandgeppetto joined the group Lesbian Relationship Challenges.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Tricking myself

  Posted by: meandgeppetto

  Last Reply: Eduar1 10/23/2018

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  Hello all. I am looking for feedback, advice and encouragement from this community. About two weeks ago, my wife of 1 1/2 years (together for 6) told me that she wants a divorce. We have been aware of communication problems for a while and I have been actively trying to change my bad habits to be a better wife to her. 6 months ago, we had a blowout fight that resulted in divorce talk. Right then and there, I decided to commit myself to this marriage and do whatever it takes to make it work. She...

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  meandgeppetto joined the group Breakups & Divorce.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 10/22/2018

  meandgeppetto became friends with TeamDS.