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ddmom finally gets unsupervised yesterday. I take the kids over there for the babies first overnight since august. do you think ddmom would be thrilled, and have them spend the night at her house,...

This morning, in the quiet hour, as I play with Miss early bird babygirl, it occurs to me. Biomom has never had both kids by herself, with no help from anyone. Perhaps I am wrong, but I can’t think...

DisgustNo longer disbelief, not even incredulous surprise or disappointmentJust bitter disgustWhen you finally realize and accept they aren’t going to do any betterBecause they don’t want to

So now baby girl’s been living at my house may, june, july, august, sept, 5 months.Biomom says she has a job, but I don’t believe her. She is either at home or at boyfriends house, and offered to...

Biomom calls me up raising cain because biodad told her, He  is getting gd for all the holidays. She insists she is getting kids for ALL holidays. I told her to stop talking to people that upset...

Babygirl, 9 months old, just started sleeping through the night last week. I thought I was going to lose my mind.Sleep deprivation is a killer. We tried everything, and she was getting where...

I am so sick of being put in the middle by my bio daughter and her dad, my dh.She wants to go to the grocery store, and for us to give her 28 for her rent.( First month in this apt) He wants to take...

DDMom gets her own apartment today. I am so happy for her, and so worried, and scared, and hopefull. There aren’t enough words for how much I want this to work for her. This small HUGE step towards...

don't know why, but I'a amazed that she woudn't stay at my house a couple days to help take care of her sick child. She insisted her child go to tinytown and stay with her and her friends, 30 miles...

This morning went to TANF office, they open at 830. I got there at 8, and stood in a line halfway down the building, I was number 21. After sitting until 1030, I was called and told to come back...

Saturday, I go to the store to get potatoe chips.. Did not know that was a bad thing.While I was gone, ddmom gets in an argument in the kitchen with dd(18yo). ddmom(19yo), with 7 mo on her hip, grabs...

Some might think I'm crazy, but it's a relief to finally understand what my daughters problem is. OK it's undiagnosed by a professional but its got to be it. My daughter is Borderline Personality...

Gotta love dss. My daughter says she can’t handle the baby. So I put her in daycare. Biomom won’t get a job, says she cant. If she’s left with kids she calls me freaking out, so I have to pay...

I want to call biomom and ask her what she is doing to move onward. Is she going to therapy? Is she going down to dss and continue until they help her find work? Is she applying every day and looking...

went to dss office. TANF benefit for gs will take 3 months to get back since mother moved out. They claim it's because sometimes the parents move in and out all the time. Hello? that's a good reason...