I want to call biomom and ask her what she is doing to move onward. Is she going to therapy? Is she going down to dss and continue until they help her find work? Is she applying every day and looking ACTIVELY for work? Where is she on the housing list? I just want to know she is actively REALLY trying.However, she wasn't looking that hard from my house. She wasn't trying that hard either. Since she has been gone over 2 weeks, and has in that time spent the child support and the state money, leaving it up to me and biodad to provide for babygirl, I should be able to assume she's not that INTO trying. WHAT THE HECK IS SHE DOING??Is she looking for another man to rescue her, since biodad isn't doing it fast enough? The state keeps dropping her check for non-compliance. She must realize she can't just coast through, she will run out of money, friends, options.I just want to scream.I know they let her drive the car, why isn't she using it to FIND WORK, or meet compliance?I want to call her socialworker, and ask her what the status is. Are they going to help her find work? Are they going to keep giving her a check? I can no longer pay my bills. I can't keep taking on her responsibilties, I am now dropping mine.  Grandson has needs, granddaughter has expenses. I feel like one horse pulling a two horse carriage, and the other is dead!