TiredOfCrying

Activity

• Infidelity
  

  Question for the Healed

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Last Reply: calirn13 04/13/2020

  4

  0

  Another subjective question for those who have "healed".  Assuming there have been no other instances, and the betraying spouse has done all of the right things, can you honestly say you have healed. I'm sure some will think that if I'm asking this almost 2 years post D-Day, that I'm not in a good place and should probably move on.  I'd be lying if I said I don't think the same at times, but I promised to keep fighting until I have no fight left to give.  He's been nothing but great, but my...

• 

  Joined New Group

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 12/16/2019

  TiredOfCrying joined the group Rebuilding Marriage After Infidelity.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 11/27/2019

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion Nietzsche was wrong.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 05/21/2019

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion How Long?.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 05/14/2019

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion How Long?.

• Infidelity
  

  How Long?

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Last Reply: JacksMom 07/21/2019

  11

  1

  I obviously know this is different for everybody, but I’m just curious as to how long it really took to start feeling better if you stayed with your cheating spouse.  13 months in, and for some reason, I’m more angry now than ever, and my husband has been nothing but great since.  I just can’t stop picturing him with her every time we’re together. We’ve done a few sessions of couples counseling, and I’ve gone on my own, but still can’t come to terms with it. I guess a part of me...

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 07/02/2018

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion PTSD?.

• Infidelity
  

  PTSD?

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Last Reply: joel77 03/02/2019

  13

  2

  This may sound silly, but has anybody ever been diagnosed with PTSD after their spouse came out about an affair?  I would never compare what I am going through to that of our military or anybody involved in a serious accident, but between the panic attacks and the nightmares, a lot of symptoms just match up.

• 

  New Friend

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 06/20/2018

  TiredOfCrying became friends with Gwendellj.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 06/20/2018

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion Still Can’t Deal.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 06/19/2018

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion Still Can’t Deal.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 06/19/2018

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion Still Can’t Deal.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 06/19/2018

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion Still Can’t Deal.

• Infidelity
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Posted: 06/18/2018

  TiredOfCrying commented on the discussion Still Can’t Deal.

• Infidelity
  

  Still Can’t Deal

  Posted by: TiredOfCrying

  Last Reply: TiredOfCrying 06/20/2018

  13

  0

  I’ll start with a bit of background. I met my husband when he was 20, I 17. We were each other’s first real relationship, and fell head over heals quite quickly. Six months later, two weeks after turning 18 and graduating high school, we got married because it just felt right. He’s been my best friend ever since, and as of last week, we’ve been married for 11 years. We both come from very broken homes and has rough childhoods. We now have a 6 year old and a 4 year old. Last year, my...