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  Posted: 02/27/2018

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  Capthowdy4701 commented on the discussion Struggling to Break Ties.

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  Posted: 02/26/2018

  Capthowdy4701 commented on the discussion The quiet.

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  Struggling to Break Ties

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  Last Reply: Capthowdy4701 02/27/2018

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  I hated her saying she's walking out of the boys life and her giving up all rights. I have to say after thinking about it all day yesterday and having nearly zero contact with her I started to get more comfortable with the idea of full custody. I had a fairly peaceful day hanging out with the boys like normal, not having them ask me if I was OK. I hated that I couldn't always hold it together long enough to leave the room. We sat and talked about what had happened with mom, never bashing her....

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  Posted: 02/26/2018

  Capthowdy4701 commented on the discussion Why can't I let go.

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  Posted: 02/25/2018

  Capthowdy4701 commented on the discussion Devastated.

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  Posted: 02/25/2018

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  Devastated

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  Last Reply: Dx3 02/27/2018

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  I tried last night to listen to everyone and do something for me. I called a friend to go out and play some pool. Just wanted a break from the house. I dropped my 2 boys off at grandma's house and started my night. It was hard to go out without her. It felt overwhelming but it was a place we never went to together so no memories to bring me down. From the first rack until the drop of the 8 ball I didn't have any painful thoughts. I was actually at ease and having fun. But sadly to say she...

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  Posted: 02/24/2018

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  Why can't I let go

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  Last Reply: Capthowdy4701 02/26/2018

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  After 15yrs of marriage, 17yrs of her, my wife walked out the door. We had a lot of good years and a couple of bad.Back storyShe was pregnant when I met her. I stayed by her side through the pregnancy, and delivery, and we had a daughter. The real dad wanted nothing to do with the baby. I was dad. We had three more babies. Losing one at 14 months old. Our marriage wasn't perfect. I was faithful, devoted, and tried to always put her first. There were times I worked too much, leaving her alone to...

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  Posted: 02/23/2018

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  Posted: 02/23/2018

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