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  How do I explain I need space to mutual friends?

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  Last Reply: 11Christmases 06/14/2018

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  Hi, My ex and I of 4 years broke up nearly 7 months ago. Whilst she dumped me, it was fairly amicable in the end. We have not really been able to reduce contact / go no contact really until this past month due to factors such as living arragements, overseas trips etc. Finally being able to have space / minimal contact has really helped bring me into my own and enabled me to grow in so many positive ways, however we have mutual friends. Some where her friends first, but became close friends of...

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  Any ideas what her deal is?

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  Last Reply: Msteele4555 05/25/2018

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  So quick recap my ex and I dated for 4 years and have been broken up for 6months.we didn’t speak for a good month but because we had to sort out what to do with our unit and also plan a trip to Japan we had both booked for a friends birthday, we had to speak quite regularly after that month. Speaking between then and the trip was fine, it’s was friendly and she’d ask me a lot of questions. She even invited me to her housewarming because she wanted me to see where she lived (I don’t...

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  Handling mutual friends post break up

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  Last Reply: HopeandMoreHope 02/18/2018

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  Hey everyone,So my ex-partner of 3 1/2 years broke up with me just after new years.  During our relationship I became really close with two of her friends to the point where they considered me one of their best mates. After the break up I sent them a message saying I would still really like to be their friend despite the akward situation at the moment. They said they would always be my friend and wanted to stay friends as well. Recently I have noticed that when I hang out with them they are...

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  Confused - anyone else been in similar situation?

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  Last Reply: jojored 01/17/2018

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  Hi everyone,I posted just under two weeks ago in regards to my break up with a partner of 3 1/2 years, one of which was very confusing and open ended. I have posted the link if you wanted the background story and to save me repeating myself.https://www.dailystrength.org/group/breakups-divorce/discussion/break-up-due-to-partner-needing-to-find-themselvesNow I know we are broken up and it has been very difficult to accept. Things are just very confusing on especially in terms of how she dumped me...

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  Posted: 01/07/2018

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  Break up due to partner needing to find themselves

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  Last Reply: nic9207 01/07/2018

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  Hi,My ex girlfriend  and I had been together for 3 1/2 years and every aspect of our lives was intertwined. In the past six months though things were not fantastic as she was incredibly busy with work and was never home, I had started shift work with an ambulance service which was very emotionally demanding. We were both exhausted all the time.  We basically never spent any time together and when we did we either had a great day or we fought. Coming up to Christmas things go progressively...

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