Tmjeffe

Activity

• Widows & Widowers
  

  Discussion Like

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 10/15/2017

  Tmjeffe liked the discussion I'll meet you at the gates.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Doing good

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Last Reply: idontmakeherhapyenuf 09/23/2017

  1

  0

  I haven't been on here for a while but I wanted to share that I'm doing very good. I've turned a new corner in my life. I feel free. I even found someone that really makes me happy. My new promotion at work is really going well. My life is very busy with work and seeing my boys but so so worth it. 

• 

  Hug

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 09/23/2017

  Tmjeffe sent a hug to Q-dot
• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Choices

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 09/02/2017

  0

  0

  Sorry, it's been a while since I've been on here. So much going on with me. My ex is going crazy, I have 2 boys (20 & 25) living with him. My 25 yr old is disabled. I've had to make the horrible decision to place him in a group home. I'm not in a position to care for him and honestly he is mentally disabled as well and scares me. Still it's ripping me apart to make this choice.  Next I have to find a home for the dog. She's so beautiful, that will be easy.    My 20 yr old has had to care for...

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/14/2017

  Tmjeffe commented on the discussion Ugh.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Ugh

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Last Reply: charliegirl815 08/16/2017

  4

  0

  Feeling down tonight. So many people with opinions. I get from some people that my ex is an asshole, and others saying he is hurting because I left him. Also all this money I'm giving him to survive  (which I have too since he has my disabled son and 20 yr old son). He is putting major guilt trip on me then trying to say he wants me back.  I don't want to go back and I can't deal with all this emotional garbage. Sorry bad night.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/14/2017

  Tmjeffe commented on the discussion I want to leave my husband, but worried for my son.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Like

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/12/2017

  Tmjeffe liked the discussion Food for thought.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Food for thought

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Last Reply: Danceintherain 08/13/2017

  2

  2

  It is not the answer that enlightens, but the question.      Dwell as near as possible to the channel in which your life flows.        Ok, now your turn.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/10/2017

  Tmjeffe commented on the discussion I thought this day would never come....

• 

  New Friend

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/08/2017

  Tmjeffe became friends with ripped_my_heartout.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/09/2017

  Tmjeffe commented on the discussion Frustrated.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/08/2017

  Tmjeffe commented on the discussion Frustrated.

• Breakups & Divorce
  

  Frustrated

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Last Reply: angelnurse22 08/10/2017

  13

  1

  My ex keeps sending me flowers and saying things in text.  He wants me back. This is not what I want. How do I stop this and keep peace? I don't want our boys hurt. Right now we have an agreement to be amicable and just friends for our kids. He hurt me so bad emotionally, I'll never trust him again and I lost my feelings for him.

• 

  New Friend

  Posted by: Tmjeffe

  Posted: 08/08/2017

  Tmjeffe became friends with sam445.