tiggerbear

Ok, so everything continues to go good, its been almost two weeks, we had another  good uneventful weekend.  There were a few times I felt H should have spat the dummy and started to get aggro but...

Yet another good day passes.  Whats up with this.  I'm waiting for the next outburst, but I cant see one coming yet.  I mean I can usually get a vibe off him early that somethings up but nothing...

Ugggg last week I was adament, I was moving on because I have to.  I was feeling strong and in control of my to-in and fro-ing.  But the last few days have been great.  My hubby hasn't said a mean...

Had a good weekend. While I do have to watch what I say and do, a good weekend means my hubby didn't snap, or get aggro or angry. I was feeling a bit wore out returning to work yesterday because I...

Had a good weekend.  Watched what I did or said so its never the relaxing weekend I want or need, but at least there weren't any major issues.  Last night got a bit off track.  I didn't discipline...

Yesterday at work I had nice phone calls from Hubby.  I got home and things were like how they are during good times.  He was nice, thoughtful, caring.  I was my usual self and things all good.I...

I usually have a note book I write in from time to time.  I make sure it is well hidden of course.  I was going to use it to write down bits and pieces about my daughter as she grows up, but in the...

So its been a month since H boarded a plane and left for an indeterminant amount of time.I've been flat tack cleaning the house out, cleaning the garage up (all the things I haven't been able to do...

Well I've done it.  I've come up with a plan to keep my options open (why, I don't know... actually I do know why, its because I hope that he will change and that time apart will make a difference...

ugg I'm on a roll right now. So the cat litter box situation.  I think I just made it worse for me, congrats to my controlling hubby on that.He found a stray kitten and we've been keeping him in...

So I'm busy at work when the phone rings.  I answer.  Its hubby and he's aggro.  I'm sure the guy at the desk next to me could hear his voice as he was quite loud.  not yelling but close to...

Gosh was it less than two weeks ago when the last "bad thing" happened.  And what a day to have the next bad.I started noting on my calendar the times in which H "yells, yells and threatens, yells...

So last Sunday night having had a miserable couple of days (why does it have to happen on weekends when I really need to unwind from work and have a break, and instead end up even more of a mess come...

Having read up on the what the Stockholm syndrome is all about, I found myself nodding along to the description of how the victim thinks and why they stay in the relationship. I fit in so well. And I...

Worked myself into a tizz before heading home from work Friday night to face the unknown.And came home to find he was in the 'I dont care' mood.  Whatever I say, or ask is either ignored or given...