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  Posted: 02/03/2018

  Confusedanddazed commented on the discussion Thoughts?.

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  Thoughts?

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  Last Reply: Confusedanddazed 02/03/2018

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  It's been just over 3 years since d-day and we are still together. Im wondering if other bs have felt the same as I at this stage.. Still have horrible days where it hits you hard (though I quickly recover myself). Other days, I feel like I've given so much and didn't get enough back quick enough. My h has changed, for the better. He really has. But it sucks because it isn't the same.. I know it will never be the same, I've read it a million times. But I didn't think I would feel different...

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  Posted: 10/10/2017

  Confusedanddazed commented on the discussion Im a cheater.

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  Posted: 10/10/2017

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  Posted: 06/28/2017

  Confusedanddazed commented on the discussion I need to vent and process my thoughts..

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  Posted: 06/27/2017

  Confusedanddazed commented on the discussion I need to vent and process my thoughts..

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  I need to vent and process my thoughts.

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  Last Reply: chantanafah 08/03/2017

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  Tonight, 2 1/2 years after I found out about my husband's affair, I told him I wanted him to take me to the 2 spots he was with her when it all started. And he did. I've asked so many times before, where had it happened and he always said both of those times were in a field. Tonight, he told me they were only along the side of the road. Seeing those places didn't hurt. Hearing that he wasn't forthcoming before now and saying they were in a field, when they weren't, hurts. It's a small lie but...

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  Posted: 06/26/2017

  Confusedanddazed commented on the discussion I have cheated and lied.

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  Posted: 06/14/2017

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  Posted: 06/07/2017

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  Posted: 06/02/2017

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  2 1/2 years later

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  Last Reply: Confusedanddazed 06/14/2017

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  Two and a half years ago, I found out my husband was having an affair. He left me and our son for a brief period of time and slowly, as he revieled more and more, we decided to go to counseling (together and separate) and he moved back in. Fast forward to the present. Over the last two and a half years, I have found out more and more about the affair ( when I was looking or not looking). He sometimes still lies to me about little things (not necessarily about the affair). I recently asked him...