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- hi everyone... when I joined this group a handful of you connected with me and helped me through my worst time .... it could of been a comment a message a hug ... it all helped but lately I have not seen most of you posting so I just wanted to say I...
- today I talked on the phone with my STBX he is taking our dogs up north for the weekend ... we are kind and honest with one another and he says he would never hurt me and that he took a job out of state. At the end of the call he says Happy St...
- when my STBX left everyone was there for me calls ...invites ...texts ... but now it's been a couple months and I'm doing much better but the attention has gone away. It makes me a little scared of having that alone feeling again. I get it everyone...
- I wanted to address those of you who were the person who left the marriage... no judging as I've come to realize I should have done this years ago .... I just wanted to know if you ever look back and miss your STBX ? My STBX left me and I'm doing...
- so since a couple weeks ago when I realized I will be just fine on my own I fact even better cause looking back I was not really happy I was just staying in a marriage that was familiar to me so it felt safe. Anyway the other day I called my STBX...
- So I'm going on 5 weeks since my STBX left.... however the last week I have been happier then I have been in a long time. I guess I'm worried that this is not normal and I'm going to crash and have a breakdown. I feel excited about my future.. I am...
- Does anyone else get messages and hugs from people you know damm well should not be on this site!!! What we are all going through is no joke and I appreciate all of my REAL new friends !
- So yesterday I spoke to my STBX since he's been so wishy washy I told him to just say it tell me exactly what he is going to do and it was go through with the divorce... in the back of my mind I knew I cried but only for a few minutes i suddenly...
- Hello everyone it going on one month since my STBX left our home he is up north till Mon am and then bringing our dogs back... he said he would think about things but last night I saw a photo of him on FB drinking with his cousins ... he texted me...
- Yesterday it was beautiful out and it actually made me feel more sad because I was missing out .. you know like Being in this situation and not able to really enjoy the weather... today is raining and cold and I feel like I'm not the only one...
- I keep reading different posts about how long it takes people to feel good again ... I can barley get through a day there is no way I can keep going through this for years... I'm already 49 it's not like I have all the time in the world so that...
- I was calm today until he called I still got a bit of hope only for me to hear him say his lawyer told him not to be in the house alone with me so when can he visit the dogs ... now I'm a pile of tears ... I'm checking on you to make sure your ok he...
- I wanted to thank all of you for taking time to read and comment on my posts. You all feel like friends and have helped me through some really bad days. I wish lots of love and laughter for all your futures!
- the one thing in life I feared the most came true. My parents are long gone ... I am the youngest of 4 siblings... no aunts and uncles left... no children ...so as you can see Being 49 the last thing I wanted was to be alone. I read it takes 3...
- So I saw my doctor to see if I needed medication for depression and she put me on a low doss ... this is the second day and all I want to do is sleep and I can not eat at all I have been forcing myself to eat fruit and cereal... my poor dogs haven't...