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  Journal Comment

  Posted by: blue2016

  Posted: 12/28/2016

  blue2016 commented on JewelB's journal Death versus Divorce

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  I now understand...

  Posted by: blue2016

  Posted: 12/19/2016

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  why people have suicidal thoughts. I lost it last night when my stbx came into my room when the kids were there and started yelling about the finances (he has decided that until our temp hearing he gets to make all the decisions. My lawyer disagrees.) Then he was yelling about Xmas and how I'm prohibited to take the girls to see his parents, even though they don't want to go with him. The last straw was when he wanted to be the one to give the kids their Xmas gifts. I completely lost it,...

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  Discussion Comment

  Posted by: blue2016

  Posted: 12/19/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion Just another terrible day.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 12/19/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion Just another terrible day.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 12/16/2016

  blue2016 became friends with JewelB.

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  New Friend

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  Posted: 12/16/2016

  blue2016 became friends with JewelB.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 12/16/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion How to get through the holidays?.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 12/16/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion I feel a little vindicated after court!.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 12/15/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion We broke up still in shock.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 12/15/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion Still in the house.

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 12/15/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion Still in the house.

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  Still in the house

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  Last Reply: jojored 12/15/2016

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  After 25 years of marriage I have no idea how to go through this divorce with him in the house. The kids are uncomfortable with him here and have been staying with friends (they are 17 and 14). I have not said a word to him since this happened 5 days ago. Then last night he didn't come home and I imagine he is staying with the woman he had an affair with. I shouldn't care, but for the last 4 months he said it was over and he had no feelings left for her. I don't trust anything from him anymore...

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  Discussion Comment

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  Posted: 12/14/2016

  blue2016 commented on the discussion New journey.

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  New journey

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  Last Reply: ElizabethM 12/15/2016

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  Hi,After 25 years of marriage my husband says we have "grown apart" and that's his excuse for a more than 6 month affair.  After 4 months of therapy and fighting to stay together (with me doing most of the fighting) he has decided he is just done since I am not healing fast enough. Two weeks ok he was happy and completely in love with me.  None of it makes any sense but I am off to sign the papers to start the divorce process and could use any advice/support I can get. 

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  Joined New Group

  Posted by: blue2016

  Posted: 12/14/2016

  blue2016 joined the group Breakups & Divorce.