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  slipping

  Posted by: caitykat

  Last Reply: Jaxabelle12 02/17/2017

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  ive been supportive of my fiance since he came out to me as ftm three years ago. ive seen the posts from women who arent supportive on here and felt like they had it all wrong but im starting to really see where some of them are coming from. my kind, funny, loving girlfriend has turned into this man i dont even really know. hes become selfish and self absorbed. if we fight its all about him and how he feels. i don't even get the chance to talk anymore. we just had a big fight where i was left...

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  Posted: 12/20/2016

  caitykat commented on the discussion Grieving.

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  sorry for the rant

  Posted by: caitykat

  Last Reply: SheasWife1112 12/23/2016

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  I have known about my boyfriend being transgender for about a year and in order to give him the support he needed I basically locked out my own feelings. I identify as a lesbian and that was a struggle on its own and now I feel like I've lost part of my identity that I battled with for so long. I have been hurting about his transition for so long and for some many reasons and didn't even fully realize it untill lately. I feel like I've held so much back and now it's getting to be almost too...

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  Posted: 12/16/2016

  caitykat commented on the discussion Grieving.

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  Posted: 12/13/2016

  caitykat commented on the discussion my bf's getting angry with me.

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  Posted: 12/13/2016

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  Grieving

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  Last Reply: caitykat 12/20/2016

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  I've been with my boyfriend for three years and he came out to me a year ago as ftm. I love and support him and want him to be happy more than anything but I find myself breaking down and crying sometimes when I'm alone because I miss cierra. (Who he use to be) there are a lot of personality differences now that I didn't expect and I feel like the woman I fell in love with died. I feel like I never got closure but I can't ask for it because I don't want to upset him. 

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  Joined New Group

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  Posted: 12/13/2016

  caitykat joined the group Spouses of Transgender.

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  Posted: 12/13/2016

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  Posted: 12/13/2016

  caitykat became friends with TeamDS.