I have known about my boyfriend being transgender for about a year and in order to give him the support he needed I basically locked out my own feelings. I identify as a lesbian and that was a struggle on its own and now I feel like I've lost part of my identity that I battled with for so long. I have been hurting about his transition for so long and for some many reasons and didn't even fully realize it untill lately. I feel like I've held so much back and now it's getting to be almost too much. I love him and support him but I had no outlet to talk about the bad feelings untill I found this group with in the last week. He doesn't want me in a group or anything but I guess he doesn't have to know because I honestly NEED this. I need people to talk to that understand or really anyone to talk to about the negative at all... I'm feeling really down right now because since he started transitioning he just does appreciate me the way he did when he was a woman. I feel like he doesn't appreciate anything I do anymore. I cleaned the house top to bottom today made him dinner made his breakfast for the morning tomorrow hung his clothes and since he came home he's said maybe a few words to me. When I talk he just looks at me frustrated like why am I trying to talk to him while he's watching tv. That's something he never would have done before. He use to always make me feel like I was the most important thing in the room. I don't know if I'm over reacting or not I'm just feeling really alone right now....sorry for the rant.