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  Why??

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  Last Reply: onedayatatimeforme 12/30/2016

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  So yesterday I looked on my soon to be ex husband FB page and saw him post pictures of me and the kids. So I took that as a big sign he eabts us home. So I contacted him. Big MISTAKE.  IT ended up in a big FU like it always does. He moved his ex girlfriend that we have had problems with for yrs. She always shows up when we have split up a few times. And he denied the whole thing. So I look on her page and yep shes in the house that we just remodled. I did everything and shes there. Makes me...

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  Posted: 12/29/2016

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  Posted: 12/29/2016

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  Lost and scaref

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  Last Reply: hurtinandhealin2560 12/28/2016

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  Today I am so sad. I want to go home and make it work with my soon to be ex husband but then I know its really over. I also have a 22 yr old drug addict son whos about to be on the street and I cant handle this crap anymore.  I dont want to see my son go down that path but I cant stop it he has to wabt to be better and the only one I want is my husband who was my best friend. And I cant talk to him cause I know I deserve better then what he did. I am so scared of nit being able to get through...

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  Posted: 12/17/2016

  Bongo commented on the discussion Feeling drained.

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  Not getting any better

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  Last Reply: Akb 12/17/2016

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  Well the pain is still there and all I want to do is go home and make it all better but I know deep down I cant go back to someone who did what he did to me and my son. He is now back with his ex gf.  She is always there when we we had problems and now shes back again with her 2 four yr old twins in my house and in my sons room and it makes me sick. Not all of my stuff is out cause refused to give it to me yet I am still so sick and hurt and want my life back. But it was miserable being there...

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  Cant go on

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  Last Reply: Czar2476 12/11/2016

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  So today I cant swallow anything. Everytime I do want to throw up. I saw on FB that he had taken his ex which is now I guess there back together and ita killing me out to his Christmas party that we went to for yrs. So hurt i can barly post this. I juat want to go home but I know it was horrible being with him. He really was mentally mean to me and broke me so far down I cant see up. I am trying to stay strong for my son cause he needs me more then ever. Just cant cope. Dont want to go through...

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  Posted: 12/11/2016

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  First stepz

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  Last Reply: Koko 12/09/2016

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  Today I still woke up feeling empty and sick. Still not eating very much but I know I have to be done with this horrible person that he has become. I am at the family law waiting for some help filling out these divorce papers cause I nees some sort of financial support from him for a little while till I can get back on my feet. Good thing is is I do have a job but now I am away from my son till 9 at night. He lost everything too and we still dont understand why. Maybe I never will and thats...

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  Posted: 12/08/2016

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  Hardest thing ever

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  Last Reply: jel 12/16/2016

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  I am new and I am going through one of the most painful divorces ever. Me and my husband have had problems for a long time but this one just cut through too deeply and I don't know how to stop feeling so horrible. His parents died within six months of each other and he started to drink and party and then came home one day and told me he wanted a divorce. We just moved into his dad's house and we have fixed it all up I had picked out everything. I thought this was going to be a new beginning for...

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  Posted: 12/08/2016

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  Posted: 12/08/2016

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