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A group for moms who have reached the finish line and won the race. A place to offer support, guidance, and advice to help us on our new journey.
Joey HATES tummy time....like she will do nothing but cry...i even bought this little pillow toy thing that u put under them for tummy time and she still wants nothing to do with it,....she just lays there like a bump on a log and then cries lol....she will lift her head like crazy if she is on your shoulder tho...she is a pretty cuddly baby so i think she just wants to cuddle as opposed to exercise lol (i hate exercising too)
I just ordered her some new jeans..its like impossible to find used jeans for little ones...i had to cave and buy new because i have all these shirts that dont really do with the stretchy leggin pants and would look better w jeans plus its still been pretty chilly here so i think little leggins arent really a good options right now lol. hopefully the jeans fit here when they get here!!
of course she just woke up as well.i was about to get a shower ...she must have sensed it lol..hopefully she falls back asleep because i need to wash my hair and shave my legs today so i cant be taking a 5 min shower ..i need atleast 15 today haha! i usually only get a shower if she is sleeping if no one is home to tend to her....only once did i get a shower while she was awake and she started screaming about 2 mins after i got in ....she may go back to sleep..she is talking to the bears that are above her swing and hasnt looked over in my direction yet so i am hoping she will close her eyes :)
my little girl def has an attitude....she doesnt really cry ..she gets fussy sometimes but she will leave out these loud yells if u arent tending to her lol....its funny and i say she gets it from her dad for sure!
Looks like he wants a snack. :)
But speaking of which - the little turd will do something once and then you can't get him to do it again, like rolling over or laughing. GGGrrrr
We have his 2 month old doc appt on Fri (we're only a month late) :) Looking forward to seeing what he weighs, not looking forward to getting shots.
I think I'm gonna take a nap - I don't take very many of them anymore but today I'm tired.
Poly, Prescott made that same face, and we were lucky enough to get the best picture of it during his newborn photo shoot! He actually was making that face in several pics, but there's one close up that is just the cutest damn thing ever. It kinda looks like he's getting ready to say "Whatchoo talkin bout, Willis?" lol He has also stopped making that face now, but he's replaced it with smiles, so I'm ok with it. :) He will smile and babble all day long, but as soon as you turn the camera on him to try and catch it on film, he stops. The little booger already knows to be camera shy like his daddy. Ugh, so annoying! lol
I love our pediatrician. She's totally ok with delayed vaxing, so we won't have to start his shots for a few more months. I'd like to wait until he's at least 6 mo, and then do them on a more spread out schedule so he's not getting so many at once. Give his body time to process the chemicals from each one before he gets the next. Since he's not in daycare, there's no reason to rush into it.
I hope I like the doc tomorrow - I did like the one in our other town, even though I only saw him the one time. He seemed pretty good. And this new one comes highly recommended, so I'm sure I'll like him. I am kinda leary about the vaccines, I've heard bad things but then again I hear of all these epidemics returning and I would be so heartbroken if Trey were to get something we could have vaccinated for. I really should get the book about vaccinations and maybe I'll discuss with the new doc tomorrow and only give him one vax. But then again some of them are combo vax so you get them all at once. GGGRRRR it just seems there is no right answer.
And to be honest I realize I don't do enough research on some things but I do know that there are quite a few families around here that homeschool and from what I gather, they don't do all/any vax. I have nothing against homeschooling, I am even considering it myself but I've seen some of these ppl, they aren't the brightest, they seem to let their kids run wild with little supervision and I can't see that they spent a whole lot of time doing their research before they made the decision to not vaccinate and I don't want their kids infecting mine.
I think I'm gonna sit down real quick and make up a list of the few questions I had for the doc - make sure I don't forget anything.
He was 3 months on the 5th and he measured 23 1/2" today (so in the 17th percentile), the nurse kept saying how short he was, but I just told her to look at his parents. :) He weighed 14 lbs 10 oz (BIG BOY) so that was the 76th percentile. I can't remember what his head measured but it's BIG - in the 92 percentile. No wonder I have a hard time getting onesies on him.
The doc said something about him being extra alert or something along those lines cuz when he pulled out his tongue depressor to check his mouth, Trey grabbed it. Doc wasn't expecting that. :)
Got him a used jumparoo today - you can tell it's used, some of the paint on the stand is scratched off and some of the toys are faded, but it'll still work. And since there's a chance it might end up in our barn to entertain him while his dad and I breed cattle, then there's a chance it could get a lot dirtier.
I agree with you Mag - it's horrible that ppl are making a conscious choice to not vaccinate and then ppl are contracting and even dying from diseases that should have been eradicated.
I guess I've thought about homeschooling cuz of where we live, if Trey were to take a bus to school, he'd have to be on it for almost 2 hours before he got to school and home, so that's a minimum of 3 hours a day, just on a bus. I could drive him, but it's still 45 minutes, IF the weather is good, longer if the weather is bad. And more than likely the weather/roads will be bad a great deal of the time. I have two concerns with the homeschooling, one the socialization, but it seems that the homeschoolers around here don't have that problem. They are involved in 4H, church, a lot of other extracurricular activities that I'm sure we'd participate in some of them also. The other thing I have a hard time with is the parents that just turn their kids loose on the "workbooks" and don't pay attn. or monitor their kids. I have a friend who's kids are always 2-3 grades AHEAD of their age range but she is an actual licensed school teacher. We have another friend who's kids are behind in at least one subject. And they don't seem to be putting much emphasis on catching up or getting the younger kids even started. If we decide to do it, I'm hoping that since DH & I are both college educated that we'd be smart enough to help our kid(s) and I would just have to prioritize time to do more than just set them at a desk and expect them to teach themselves.
OK off my soapbox. :) I'm gonna go finish cleaning his "new" jumparoo and see if we can get it functional for him by tonight.
As far as the vaccines, there are so many heartbreaking stories of kids that were perfect before a vaccine that ended up with terrible, permanent problems afterward, that it's just too much to ignore. But then there are the stories of the kids contracting the old diseases too. That's why we're going with the delayed schedule. I want to protect him from disease, but I am also very concerned about all of the chemicals and additives in the vaccines, and the possible side effects they can cause. We're lucky that we don't have to put him in daycare, and have that option. I'm not sure that I want to give him all of the shots though. I mean, the ones that have been around since we were kids, like polio, MMR, Tdap, etc... I understand the need for. But chicken pox?? Really? When we were kids our parents used to make us play with kids that had it to make sure we got it!! I know that for a rare few, it can be a horrible disease, but for most kids it's just something uncomfortable that goes away in a couple weeks. I don't see the benefit outweighing the risk on that one. But we'll see how it goes. I also don't feel we need to be giving children the Hep B vaccine. Vaccines are only effective for a certain period of time (most about 10 yrs or so), so by the time the kids are old enough to be doing the type of stuff that they could contract Hep B from, the vaccine will have worn off anyway. But I digress, to each his own, and every family is different.
I would LOVE to homeschool, and I hope that I am able to when the time comes. There are so many great programs for homeschooled kids nowadays for socialization. The family down the street from me homeschools, and they have 3 kids, so there's some friends right away! lol But they do all sorts of things in the community, even a prom! Not to mention sports and other activities to get into outside of school. Most homeschooled kids are way ahead of their peers in school, and are much more prepared for college and the real world. None of that common core crap. lol There are just so many reasons to homeschool for me, like not wanting them to eat the crap they feed them at school, the fact that all kids learn differently and at different rates, our schools are seriously lacking in areas like music and the arts, they don't get near enough physical activity during the day, and small children aren't built to sit at a desk for 8 hours a day, yet if they don't do it then they are instantly labeled ADHD and their parents are strongly encouraged to put them on meds. Not to mention the safety issue with the crazy ass shit that kids will pull these days with the bullying and bringing weapons/drugs/etc to school! Ugh, I just can't! Yeah, the more I talk about it, the more I'm sure I want to homeschool! lol
Glad to hear all the little ones are growing like weeds!! I finally got some film of Prescott babbling and laughing at his daddy. He didn't know I was filming him. Gotta be sneaky! lol
I just can't stop looking at him. I love to watch him watch the world. I have a mirror in the car that lets me look at him from my rearview, and I love to watch him looking out the window and feeling the wind in his face when the windows are down. He loves it. He's just so content, and it's so friggin adorable. I also love to watch him sleep. The little faces and noises he makes, just makes me wonder what he's dreaming about. He's just so stinkin cute, and it's so amazing to see the world through his eyes. :D
i nursed in public yesterday and i just have a hard time because at home we just whip out the boob and its simple but in the middle of a packed amusement park its not simple at all....it was so hot and a soda exploded on my nursing cover right before we left so i threw it in the washer because it would just attract bees so my husband was helping me hold a blanket over us and it was just so HOT and she chokes a lot while eating because my let down is seriously insanely forceful like my boobs actually hurt during let down and it chokes her a lot so its hard to not be able to monitor 100% like i can at home but we did it and we alll survived lol..i still would prefer not to do it in public lol
well gotta go....joey just made some seriously horrible noises (going potty) and im a little fearful to check her diaper because it sounds like it might be a terrible one lol!! oh the joys of a breastfed baby ;)