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Sunny45
Sunny45

The divorce was final on Halloween.  It wasn’t something I wanted.  I moved out and into my own house before Christmas. It was so hard moving, going to work, taking care of my kids and trying to put on a brave face during the holiday rush. 


It didn’t hit me until we started the custody schedule. I hate being away from my kids. 


I’ve tried focus more on self care since I know I didn’t take care of myself the last year.  Rejoined my gym, started going  back to my yoga classes and be more social. 


I recently got sick and had surgery last Friday.  Now I’m recovering and I’m feeling sad, lonely and frustrated.  


My family and life long friends are in another state. My former in-laws have all turned their backs on me.  I’ve realized who were my friends and who were friendly with me because of my ex-husband. 


I was married for 17 years but we were together for 22.  I’m feeling so lost.


peterthegreat
peterthegreat
There must be some divorce groups. Like Meetup.com.
maria718
maria718
Oh absolutely you need a support group. Years ago, there was "Parents Without Partners", I joined that one, they were wonderful, but they are not around anymore. Definitely look up "Support Groups for Divorce online", maybe you'll come across a good one.
ifinallygetit
ifinallygetit
I too had my marriage fall apart at 17 years...20 years together. Not my choice. 2 kids. It took me a long time to find a new normal but I eventually did.

Here if you need a friend. Feel free to PM me
baybdots
baybdots
after being married for so long you kind of lose yourself Look around you will find you again it just takes time. while your kids are visiting their father find something do yoga is a good way to center yourself. Good Luck
getfuzzy
getfuzzy
Sunny45, I'm sorry about your post divorce struggles and hope you are recovering from your surgery. It sounds like you were making a great start in getting out, exercising, and being more social. Hopefully, once you recover from your surgery, you will be able to continue. Just stay busy, take care of yourself, and cherish the time with your kids. Take care!
debbie7730
debbie7730
I understand the feeling. I feel the same way even though I wanted the divorce and I have my daughter most of the time. It takes some getting used to being alone. I rushed into another relationship after I got divorced and that hasn't worked out any better. I think I need sometime to re-center and work on myself. It sounds like you are on the path to doing that. Good luck and if you need someone to chat with, I am around.
hannah_mclane
hannah_mclane
I am so sorry you are feeling this way! My parents just recently went through divorce and I can not even begin to imagine how hard it must be. I wish you the best.
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