Jealousy Support Group
Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may or may not know that he or she is perceived as a threat. If you or a loved one may have an issue with jealousy, this community is a good place to start exploring the issue and get support. We're here for...
Hi all,
I'm using this as a confessional really...because I feel rather good, rather empowered right now.
My guy did something obnoxious today. After having a bit of a "tiff" he went to facebook and issued a somewhat lewd and suggestive flirt to a former girlfriend. This former girlfriend is also a former classmate and friend--in the loosest definition of the word, so the so-called "friendship" status on facebook is completely non-threatening and that's pretty much all there is to the so-called friendship. I've never met her, but she seems nice enough.
He's such a moron for making his comment on a public wall to wall forum...or maybe he WANTED me to see the comment.
So she lives in the country and wrote a status update about needing help getting rid of a new beaver den on her property. Considering the "other" meaning of beaver, you can see the opportunity for double entendres. And different friends are weighing in on actual options, and one of her friends writes that he can help with his AK47, just a joke obviously.
So my guy...keeping in mind he used to have sex with this woman, albeit about 7 years ago, writes, "I can help you with your beaver problem...no AK47 needed" The time stamp is after our little tiff, when I went out on a quick errand.
So.....am I going to be tolerate his joke/flirt, which under the innuendos, the words are offering sex...to a former sexual partner?
Nope
So I went public too, I wrote a status update: "Cindy is rather disgusted...yet smug at the same time that frat boy is/isn't (depending on how you look at it) getting what he just earned today." It's a bit vague, but it doesn't take much to figure out. AND I added a link to an article about inappropriate flirtation.
What he did was essentially a "b*tch slap"...so I slapped back harder, so to speak. He wants to try to humiliate me by his words...well, he gets what he gets.
Isn't funny that when he TRIED to make me jealous and/or insecure...it completely did not work. He just pissed me off...
I'm using this as a confessional really...because I feel rather good, rather empowered right now.
My guy did something obnoxious today. After having a bit of a "tiff" he went to facebook and issued a somewhat lewd and suggestive flirt to a former girlfriend. This former girlfriend is also a former classmate and friend--in the loosest definition of the word, so the so-called "friendship" status on facebook is completely non-threatening and that's pretty much all there is to the so-called friendship. I've never met her, but she seems nice enough.
He's such a moron for making his comment on a public wall to wall forum...or maybe he WANTED me to see the comment.
So she lives in the country and wrote a status update about needing help getting rid of a new beaver den on her property. Considering the "other" meaning of beaver, you can see the opportunity for double entendres. And different friends are weighing in on actual options, and one of her friends writes that he can help with his AK47, just a joke obviously.
So my guy...keeping in mind he used to have sex with this woman, albeit about 7 years ago, writes, "I can help you with your beaver problem...no AK47 needed" The time stamp is after our little tiff, when I went out on a quick errand.
So.....am I going to be tolerate his joke/flirt, which under the innuendos, the words are offering sex...to a former sexual partner?
Nope
So I went public too, I wrote a status update: "Cindy is rather disgusted...yet smug at the same time that frat boy is/isn't (depending on how you look at it) getting what he just earned today." It's a bit vague, but it doesn't take much to figure out. AND I added a link to an article about inappropriate flirtation.
What he did was essentially a "b*tch slap"...so I slapped back harder, so to speak. He wants to try to humiliate me by his words...well, he gets what he gets.
Isn't funny that when he TRIED to make me jealous and/or insecure...it completely did not work. He just pissed me off...
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Most of the people in that group are toxic parents and I wrote a post about why a child would want to get away from their parents. The scary thing is, there's way more support for toxic parents than victims of toxic parents. The Estrange parent from adult child group has like 2,000+ people... Who don't seem to understand that they caused the estrangement, they think it's the kid's fault and...
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I was curious as if any other wives ere married to bedwetters and how it affects you and your marriage and the things you do to cope with it
xoxo kay