LMTightAO!
At the Huffington Post article!!

onetoomany: Well, if I could meet a woman my own age who I LIKED...is smart, funny, has the ability to be hyper or go deep, isn't too steeped in negativity or her comfort zone, has certain physical qualities, namely long legs and a tight, snug ass...

BTW, in case any of you are thinking "here's this short, fat guy looking for his tall, slender supermodel", I'm 5'11" and pretty slender myself. Someone about 5'8"-5'9" would be great, ideal for her and for me, so we'd feel partners.

Do you find that women in their 40's and 50's are negative?

Statistics say men hit their sexual peak between 20 and 30 while women hit a peak between 30 and 40. Not all men and women..just majority. Guess thats why my spouse is 9 yrs younger than I...I was 38 and he was 29. And 5 yrs. later the sex is the one thing we Don't fight about. Lol

one: Yep! And worrying (which is negative)!

Koolman, Please give an example of the negativity of 40-50yo women.

Worrying is a part of being an adult. If you have someone who doesn't worry you have one of the following:

A) a child
B) an adult who has never matured
C) an irresponsible person who allows others to either worry for them or else ignores issues and lets them accumulate

I agree JoleneLS

Healthy worry is not only positive but necessary in order to make appropriate decisions and to problem solve. I mean, really, some degree of worry keeps us from screwing off at work, paying our bills, and ensure we're taking responsibility and accountable.

Worry is negative when it's an unhealthy worry, obsessive and compulsive and prevents someone from functioning. I'm quite sure not all 40-50 year old women fall into this category.

I think anyone just looking for a hook up or a casual thing, date whomever you want.. But if looking for something more, you may have to change how you see women in their 40s and 50s. I know GREAT women in their 40s and 50s who are interesting and fun and intelligent and complicated and challenging, all in one, because that's evidence of having lived life for several decades. That's what is substantive about a person, male or female. Not liking someone's personality is one thing. No one wants to date someone they simply don't like, regardless of age. But if the issue is believing that younger women have no hang ups and are just going to be who you prefer they be, wait. It's coming. Youth is fleeting, and, you're not getting any younger. You're going to keep getting older and those young women are going to get older and evolve, becoming wiser and deeper and more complex and having different needs and desires, sexual, intellectual, emotional desires, as they get older, that at some point, you won't be able to accommodate them on pretty much any level.

I absolutely don't agree that worrying is part of being an adult. Faith and mindfulness remove worry from the equation as the negative, wastes of time, and the gift that life is, that they are. I'm an adult and I don't waste time worrying or being negative, my moments are spent on gratitude, and love. Even the challenging moments.

Koolman - you want a young girl you need to be cashed up son.

LOL!!!
Cashed up!!
I love it.

one: YOU'RE pretty chipper, and you're my age, but you're a bit hyper, seem to have a problem with boredom or going deep!

The rest of you: THOUGHT, CONTEMPLATION, yes, is healthy. WORRY, no, I absolutely couldn't disagree more. But thank you all for your opinions.

@Koolman
This is like the third time you have made a direct dig at me.
You know nothing about me.

I am through with your insults.