I know what you mean because I myself need to think out loud or include someone else when it comes to mproblem solving which is why the old expression says that two heads are better than one.

I noticed that you said that things were moving too fast and that you think that he may be a factor in your life that's causing you stress but that you are emotionally invested in him.I guess that my suggestion would be to spend less time with him but not necessarily to break it off.Just a suggestion.

If you are considering breaking it off with him, go ahead and do it now. Before you invest even more time, emotional and physical energy and before you experience more added stress.

I think im going to give it a chance. Hes really super sweet and even tho I feel that way at times, I think if we do things differently it could work

"If" and "could" are dangerous words.

Sometimes relationships just aren't meant to be. But you are young - you have plenty of time to figure these things out for yourself.

It is good to "think out loud". It is hard to go backwards in a relationship. If you feel you've gone too far physically and are not emotionally invested as well or considering a serious, marriage-material relationship, it is best to end it. As Yard_Eggs suggested, you should take the time to determine what you want for your future and the goals you have for yourself. Relationships should not be stressful.

Relationships should not be stressful.

TRUTH!!

I don't know why so many people believe a relationship is supposed to be "work", a bundle of conflicts and contradictions. Ups and downs, break-up and make-ups.

Relationships are like air travel. I chose a smooth flight rather than turbulence anytime. Sure, the turbulent flight is probably more exciting and adrenaline filled. More stressful too.

As long as the destination is reached. I will always take a smooth takeoff and landing. Leave the excitement and drama fir the disaster movies.

Yeah but i have anxiety so any relationship is going to be stressful. Some stress is good for you too. So its just learning what u can deal with and what you can't.

Also im working through things with my counselor

only you knw whether this person is right for you and whether to keep him for the right reasons or it may be due to the appearence of the person that you want to still be together in limbo.You need to find out what you want by yourself and communicate that effectivly to your BF and whether he understand what you are saying. You compromise regarding your requirements or just let him go.

Just a thought: have you thought of establishing healthy boundaries for your self? something that I also need to work on, still wanted to put that out there...

Yeah we both agreed upon ending the relationship =( sad but for the best

Sorry! :( I don't think you were with him that long? It sounds cliche' but you are young, and you will find someone better. Try to learn from this experience and move on with your life. Support to you while you go through this. Hugs.

I used to be rally bad at communicating. I saw that it ruined relationships with others I have encountered or dated. But one thing that helped me open up is that I realized that the tongue is powerful for many reasons. When I realized that, letting my current girlfriend in was a wonderful thing for us. She loves me enough to want to help all my problems and make them right. When I saw this, I realized that my defense mechanism was harming the person I loved, and that is what made me change for the better. Communicating is beneficial for both parties and it took me a while realize that. Haven't looked back every since.

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