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Extreme anxiety due to relationship

hermi
hermi

Hello,


so I'm currently in a weird relationship with my long distance ex who I've never met in person and it's taking a toll on me. I've lost 15 pounds and lost my appetite, but I'm really attached to him. We've had a lot of problems and I think that has caused me to gain severe anxiety. I don't know if I should wait until it gets better or what. Everytime I've blocked him, it has tend to make me feel worse and we end up unblocking each other. I feel like I'm wearing away and I'm so scared :(

mlr0853
mlr0853
I pray to God you have not sent him any money!!!

Capital RED FLAGS Waving.

Block and Stay Blocked!

Your anxiety is telling you what you need to do...listen to your body,

I've got nerves in my body just reading your post for you, your life, and health.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Big hug Hermi

I agree with ML...Stay blocked

The reason 'relationships' can seem so strong eith domeone you've never met is fantasy

Your imagination is making this all powerful

In reality this is someone that you've nevet met and still don"t get along with it seems

Block him...Absolutely don't send anything
Meet people close to home and go have some fun

If you need to go and see your doctor re the anxiety and weight loss

Another hug sweetie...xo
JazzyLady
JazzyLady
I agree with miro and SunCloud. In your mind you have created this relationship. So it is disappointing if what you anticipated does not blossom into a great connection with someone. It is easy to say the words someone else wants to hear expecially if you are not face to face. Time to move on, you have learned from this situation. A good relationship does NOT make you feel bad. Good luck!
hermi
hermi
Thank you JazzyLady, Suncloud, and Miro. You guys are all amazing and I appreciate it so much
lucillegem
lucillegem
sorry to hear that happened. you deserve much better. I agree with Jazzylady, any relationship that makes you feel that way isnt worth it. Warm hugs
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