Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Rman 04/29/2009

I won't get married again...it's not for me...nope...no way...hell no...i would have to be an idiot to get married again...fuck that shit...

deleted_user 04/29/2009

I dont think so. I did it twice and I feel very foolish

There's an old saying in Tennessee - I know it's in Texas, probably in Tennessee...that says, fool me once, shame on...shame on you. Fool me...you can't get fooled again.

that's how I feel about marriage

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Amen to that! I will have sex again, one day.

deleted_user 04/29/2009

At first i was sure I would never marry again, just the thought would make my stomach turn. Now I'm not so sure... maybe one day when the right guy comes along... maybe! Everyone in my immediate family has been married and stayed married forever... I want that!! I want to grow old with someone not alone :(

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Yes, I would. As bitter, jaded and cynical as I am, I still think it's possible to co-exist with another on a permanent basis without having the consistant urge to smother them in their sleep.

Yep, that's the romantic in me.

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Good one alittle...
At least it was only while he was sleeping though, right? lol

deleted_user 04/29/2009

I do not know, I am not seeking it out as I used too, and do not believe in things I used too, but if I met the right person.....

I really do not know

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Yeppers. I'm just that kind of gal. Besides my son (13) has already picked out a new husband for me. We should probably let the poor guy know before the wedding.

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Yes I would get married again. Through all this hell, I still believe in marriage, I still believe two people can have an amazing relationship.

I loved being married, I loved being a wife....I love the idea of having a partner in life.

What can I say I'm a romantic at heart......I still believe in love....

all good things happen in time.....

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Yes I do want to get married again.

I still believe in marriage - it isn't what is flawed.

My picker was broken and I choose the wrong guy.

deleted_user 04/29/2009

How can i be sure no one will hurt me again? Maybe

deleted_user 04/29/2009

I feel the same way Julie. I loved being married and love my life when I was married. Even with all the problems I still loved having someone to be with. I want to believe people can have happy long term marriages. I thought mine was happy at 10 years.

deleted_user 04/29/2009

I have no idea really. Since I already have 3 children, I can relax in that regard. (No offense to people who choose not to have children; I get that, too.)
Thinking I may try again much later in life. A companion for the golden years. But who knows what the future holds?

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Yes, I would. Soon, nope. But if not Kimmee I am there in a heart beat.

deleted_user 04/29/2009

You wouldn't marry Soon?

He'll be sad.

deleted_user 04/29/2009

Not anytime soon. It seems so often after a divorce, you see the man get remarried really quickly. But for me, I can't trust anyone right now enough to get into another marriage, let alone a serious commitment.

But eventually, I hope so.

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