Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
How come so few talk on this site now? This is a support group for people who were fucked over and is intended to help by talking...
So I'm talking...by myself. I feel ditched. Sometimes I laugh and shake my head (smh)...lol...
So I'm talking...by myself. I feel ditched. Sometimes I laugh and shake my head (smh)...lol...
Tradition is simply certain cultural practices that are handed down from generation to generation. The people who you may have considered a "clique," were just the veteran members of DS...the people who learned the tools to get through this pain.
Everyone was, or is here for the exact same reason. Everyone has been affected by a breakup or divorce. Therefore, everybody is equal. Everybody began the same way on this site...as a newbie.
If you choose to label people as "cliques," then you are doing nothing more than alienating yourself from the group. Perhaps you may not have received the exact support, from the exact people, at the exact time you needed it, but I'm certain that if you stuck around long enough and just kept talking, that you would get what you needed.
When I came here, I took a chance by putting myself out there, into a public forum and giving everyone a look inside my brain. Some people hated me, some did not...but I was true to myself and still am...
I'm sorry so many people have turned this into a feud and gang-like mentality, but I can assure you...those people who you may consider "cliques," are people who may have saved my life. Everyone here reading this right now, whether you like it or not, is in this clique. It's the clique, called, DS Breakups and Divorce...fuckers...
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It's Halloween, so that is the look I was going for...The King knows scary! lol
How about a coupon for a nice tasty Whopper, everyone wins :)
I will just close my eyes so that mask won't scare me.
To Trisha, If you need a friend I am here. If I am not online send me a message and I will get back to you when I return. Others would too. Sometimes it seems others don't care but they don't always know when they are needed. It can sting a bit but we don't read minds. Plz feel free to vent if you need to.
Rman, glad you are still here to be a part of the group. I understand the feeling of a site like this being a lifesaver. If only we all could have someone to love us as much as you love your wife. People like you are so hard to find.
King, you are just a dirty old man. What else can I say.
I'm sorry your most reliable supporters are elsewhere now. But I'm glad you still have access to them. They sound like they helped you a lot.
So when I do get on here I want to see real words and real communication. I do get that on Divorce after twenty and I am seeing that more on here too.