Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
How come so few talk on this site now? This is a support group for people who were fucked over and is intended to help by talking...
So I'm talking...by myself. I feel ditched. Sometimes I laugh and shake my head (smh)...lol...
So I'm talking...by myself. I feel ditched. Sometimes I laugh and shake my head (smh)...lol...
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When I came on here I saw all the two word replies, and figured out that this was the same. A group who had been together for so long they understand their riddles and two word replies. They hi jacked the threads they didn't like and felt they owned the breakup and divorce forum. Sorry, I am entitled to speak about what I see from my point of view.
When there was a disagreement the others would show up and it would get unpleasant. There is talk on here. Just not the cryptic two word replies that used to be seen.
Now I see real conversation with more than two sentences are even two words. Rman of all the people in your clique you were the only one to acknowledge anything I said. That was to say my ex F***ed up when he let me find he had comitted bigamy. That is the only time I had anyone say anything to me.I thank you for that acknowledgement.
But I speak real sentence as you can see. I don't do two sentence or two word replies to shut people out.
I have noticed lately, just in the past few days though, how little of that has gone on, and how much lighter the atmosphere is, even if it is quieter late at night. It's not as playful as it was, yet, but I agree Trisha, there has been more lengthy inclusive posts now than since I've come.
I have always had faith that with 1,000's of members, this place will always bounce back and become not just lively (there are still tons of posts each and every day) but playful. As long as it's bigger than us, it's got a life of it's own.
Live and let live a little. We're nobody's parent on here, we don't have to correct anyone else's behavior, choices, or the way they post. Yeah, there is some healing from people challanging you and the way we think about things, but not if it's Constant. We're all on here for support, not to get shot down for staying in situations or loving someone that doesn't love us back.
I'm sorry that you don't feel welcome.
Hugs to all!!
Censorship? For as long as I've been on here people have been free to post their personal opinions about everything...politics, religion, economics, divorce, marriage, etc. The only thing that I've ever know ds to ask us not to do, is post our opinions about other members. And I've seen a lot of tollerance about that one too.
It's the members that couldn't stop themselves from 'warning' other members about people that that they didn't like (and I'm not commenting on the truth or lack of truth of the argument) that have been warned themselves and then banned.
In other words, my freedom ends....where yours begins. We can all start our own boards if we want to be in charge.
Sometimes I get a little manic streak, and I just can't shut up.
I thought about waiting for an invitation to join in the conversations, then I thought about it, and it's silly. I think everyone that posts here, actually hopes that others will join in.
So, there is no secret group, or special group, so it's not like I am barging in. Thinks we are all here for the same reason, to learn, to meet and to just shoot the shit. This whole reply, of course, is only my opinion.
I hope no one feels like they can't join in on any thread. WELCOME EVERYONE!!!!
I like "shooting the shit" :)