Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have always wondered why goes through a woman's mind. I mean, I really don't think that most men understand how to make them happy. A man can be happy with a few simple things in life...sex, food, beer and t.v. Women seem to be a little more complicated than this, though. So, my question is what do women want? And for the men, what did you think they wanted, but later realized wasn't actually the case? I'm at a point of trying to find myself right now. I'm headed back into the desert soon, to explore my mind a little more...
One of life's biggest frustrations if you ask me
women, don't make the guys guess because more times than not, we will guess wrong... If something is bothering you, don't wait until it festers into a all out fight, if something makes you feel good, yes a little recognition goes a long way, etc, etc....and yes sometimes you do have to hit us with a brick....
Guys, have the courtesy to listen, no matter how boring you think it is, because more times than not it is the simple things that will make them happy.... it really is not that hard, they may seem complicated buy it is really quite simple if you just listen.
Communication is what everyone wants but both find it so hard to do.... In my opinion.
I know my grammar makes Frank want to reach threw his keyboard and choke me. But what the hell are you saying BP?
Jo, that is what many men go threw. Mine did it to me as well and it is a pain in the ass. The same thing happened after we split, "you never listened to me" or a load of other things.
Like Dale mentions, it is all communication. Be honest and say what you want to. Dancing around the issue only delays the issue or causes others as they drag out.
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You want that? No, if you do, stay and we will ALONE 4 EVA
I am I the only one?