Oh and another note: NO one wins on a rebound; no one wins divorce; no one wins with cheating; and no one wins. period.....you may be hurting yourself; and the baby......

Hmmm sure sound slik eRockNMetal chick wants him to stay with her at all costs. NO matter what happened in regards to how they ended up together, I dont think its going to be enough. A child is involved and is going to get the short end of the stick because the dad is a cheater and the mom is a codependent in my opinion. Worse, the foundation is as rocky as Amy WHinehouse at a bar. Some have mentioned counseling here and I would recommend it too. Also perhaps walk into an SLAA or CoDa group. I think they really will help. A child is on it way and you two dont have it together. Get it together for better or for worse. If it wasnt for the pregnancy, Id say other things.

Well said Road! I'm impressed.

Lace is itchy Queen... I mean I'm fine with cotton.. If boys don't like it, then screw them.. Oh wait, There are no boys in my world, so it's okay cotton will do me just fine!

Weird...a month ago she posted a hug on the love of her life's hugbook that he picked his stbx over her again.

Now she's with him again? And pregnant? And was pregnant before but lost the baby?

Wow, Rock, all I can say is that you really screwed the pooch on this one. Rule #1: Don't be the other woman. Rule #2: Don't be the other woman. Rule #3: Don't be the other woman.

Did you do something wrong? Ummm, yeah. You were the other woman. You got involved with a married man.

Honestly, I would say, get yourself out of this relationship. Give him room to breathe and think about what he wants. Concentrate on improving yourself so that when your baby comes, you can be the best person and mom possible.

If he comes back to you, fine. If not, move on to an UNMARRIED man. Or no man. You're going to be busy with a baby.

You've made a lot of mistakes. Time to start fixing them.

Road, it hurts my head to have to say this, but I agree with the codependent statement. Now someone get me a rum!


Also, since your 'nice' week is over, I've been booted once, and suspended once until I had to sleep with the little elves that run DS, so this week is my 'naughty' week.

WAIT ! WAIT! DID YOU JUST AGREE WITH ME ABOUT THE CODEPENDENCY! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA YES, THERE IS A DS GOD!

Ok, I'll tell them not to delete your accounts anymore.

PS- Being nIce relaly was hard. I didnt come back because I couldnt do it. Kimmee and Veachjay are my new heroes. They will teach me the way of the good.

All seriousness Peace, I'll post a series of characteristics of a codependent. Read through them when I post them and this member will ring like an alarm

Yeah, but njmel what kind of underwear are you wearing?

I'm listening to Calloway "I wanna be rich".. I so love this song!

It was hard for me to even utter that sentence ROAD. I knew you'd be thrilled or gloating, whichever. :)

Kelly... oh Kelly! Where the hell is my string... I am COLD!

Oh hush it penguin.. You live in ice anyways.. :) I lost my panties a long long time ago... I guess what's good for the goose is good for the gander.. la la la la... I so love the 90's channel on Music Choice.

sorry queenie, didn't see your question.

Umm, wish it was more exciting. Flesh colored cotton thong. Is that considered big girl panties?

I see the most popular post being this one in my inbox in the morning.... YAY for pointless threads... where the poster doesn't even respond! I'm just saying..

I think you have just put yourself in a corner. If he is still in love with his wife , your road will be very hard. Sorry. Being pregnant doesn't condone what you have done and I'm sorry but you will have repercussions.Its just the way life is, you are just feeling it now and he is feeling trapped.