Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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RockNMetalChic
RockNMetalChic
i am currently with a man whom i love with all my heart- he is going through his second divorce and having a pretty hard time dealing with his emotions and missing his ex- i am doing all i can to let him talk and i listen ... to try and help him figure out what went wrong and why.. and to just be a friend for him to lean on... but whatelse can i do to help i need some advice- this is hard on both of us and when he hurts i hurt- i just really need to know- is there something i'm doing wrong- btw- please before u suggest anything negative - know that i'm pregnant with his baby...
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Are you kidding me? Zebra makes your butt look fat? Why didn't you tell me that BEFORE I bought them (I mean santa)? Great. Just great.
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Zebra goes side to side.. I need up and down.. If they are up and down, I'll take them...
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I honestly don't understand the 'vague' posting, then the request for 'no negativity' on a site where more than half the members on it both male and female have a husband or wife that have cheated on them. Is there a support group for the OW, or OM?
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Isn't that what the infidelity support group is for?
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I actually went and looked you've got me stressed. I'm keeping them. Fancy lace around the top.
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It was because she knows she is wrong in the situation but is seeking advice. Had I been her, I never would have admitted to being the OW.. Just my thoughts, but who am I...
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Kelly - I am fantastic too when I wear my cape. Where does the other woman live and how big was this Vday gift. No matter what I can probably shove it up her you know what! I'm sure it's big enough and I'm not talking about the gift...
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I'll take anything as long as it doesn't go up my butt... how bout that! If I constantly pick my butt, people will think I don't know how to wipe.
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Well Peace, apparently there is a Cheaters Anonymous group here on DS that she already belongs to. Not being to anonymous though with her posts.
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She got a cool card, a big box of chocolates with a coffee mug.. Not a small one either, one of those huge ones, cause he said she loved coffee.. YAY for listening!
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Right on Gaelyn.
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Another bright one!
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Speaking of bright.. You know I miss bright lite... :)
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Well kells. I only buy the cotton. Those silky ones just slide right up. And too much lace is too damn itchy. How sexy can you look if you are constantly itching your ass? But I make sure to pick out the cute ones.
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Even though you can't help what YOUR heart feels and that you are in love with him and you are going to have his baby; I can't help but to tell you that HE IS NOT HEALED FROM HIS DIVORCE! He isn't close to that. This may be a long road for both of you.
I understand; I was trying to get involved with someone before my divorce was final; and I broke my heart again; a friendship and I drove away a guy that couldn't keep dealing with my ranting and raving about my stbx. I was the one not dealing with my divorce. I also lost a friend. It REALLY HURT ME!
He is not ready yet; he may need counseling; and so will you.

I know now for me: I have to heal from my divorce before I can even give my heart to someone else; or to even sleep with that person. When hearts are not fully healed from break ups/divorce/death; we all cheat ourselves. His heart may be with you in some sort; but not all of it. He's still tied to his ex......
It's not a good thing all around; trust me........so please take heed; and get some counseling under your belt for YOU. Encourage him to have a session or so as well; but if he refuses; YOU need someone to help YOU; too.