I did see a few offer the free consult. I will see what they are saying - acquire the information.

Many offer free consults, know your rights.

Thats why i went to my lawyer the year before
to find out my rights.

My Ex had to sign off on her as our joint lawyer.
She was a good divorce lawyer, my XBIL Had
her and she got him what he wanted.

Talk to others who got good settlements. There
Are many bad lawyers out there too. HUGS

Yes Jewel listen to these people. I'm sure you will find a lawyer that will help in your financial situation. My husband had tons of money, I was left with none. I found an awesome attorney that allowed me to make payments to her through the very end. Until I met her I felt as helpless as you do now. You will feel so much better once you get the ball rolling. Forget his ass.....he thinks you won't do anything and until you do he will keep on with the same bs. We're all here for you. Start calling......and Happy New Year. Only good things to come for you. <Hugs>

Yeah, I do feel helpless. And I am glad to have you guys to listen and give advice to me. My friends who have been through it aren't giving me much advice, and I don't know why. Happy New Year to you as well love.

I think people don't want to talk about their messy, private business.

Here it's anonymous and the internet gives a feeling of space. Or detachment.

Things get ugly and painful, and really they don't want to relive it or go too much into their "stuff" with people.

It's very negative and most want to put it behind them and leave it there.

Sassy is right and chances are many of your friends haven't been through what you are going through. This website is so great and has helped me so much.

Please make the appointment, pull out all the possible ways to find money to pay them and get started, I promise you he already has and you are lucky you are only steps behind in the process.
We were never married and my stbx still went to see a lawyer!!! needless to say I was definitely shocked and never would have imagined that he would even think up such a thing.

When my ex left me, it was a shock. I did not see it coming. I was a mess an I knew almost no one wo had even threw a divorce. I was lucky, the two I did know we're so open, so willing to.share.

The best advice I got? "Listen to your lawyer. You are not emotionally capable of withstanding. It alone. the lawyer has seen it all. Trust them."

Best advice I got.

Just talked to him, he has already talked to a lawyer. He wants to give me $6,000 a month but my rent is $2,600.