The only person you should be communicating with and listening to is your LAWYER.

Get one. You can thank us later.

I am so scared, I am already living in misery

Going to try to get a lawyer through the teachers unions, they are closed for the week. I fear that I am going to be homeless.

Once you have a lawyer you will begin to feel empowered.

It will still suck. But you won't feel or be helpless anymore and you won't have to worry about paying the bills.

You can grieve and heal without unnecessary worries.

We were all scared.

Sorry for being such a worrier but this is how I feel, I will solicit the lawyer

Great. People here will support you.

I promise you will not regret that attorney.

You don't sound scared at all, the thought makes my chest tighten

My divorce is over. Has been for two years.

I'm just beginning to settle into a new life.

I came to DS to deal with anxiety and just began offering some of my experience to those on this forum. I hadn't intended to, but if it's helpful, what the heck.

It is very helpful, it's just what to do and how. Like I said, no one gives the whys just has a lot of advice and you are trying to muddle through it all.

Like I said, I wish I had this forum.

My attorney had to navigate everything for me.

It's a good thing because my ex-husband, who I thought was at least God fearing and basically decent would have robbed me blind and left me with nothing.

They always convince themselves that they're the victim and deserve it all.

Why?

Because they're done. They want to move on, have basically checked out as Mirandac points out and are selfish and greedy.

Once they realize it's over, they want to go and not suffer any consequences.

They're actually quite delusional in that regard.

Think yours is different? He's not.

Don't trust him.

Now that I see what he's capable of, I don't trust him now. He's the man I thought I knew. It's not ok that I just suffer and he doesn't. Vacationing, having a good time and I have to figure out how to eat?

You can just get some information from lawyers you
Talk to for free consults. Nobody will tell you what to
Do, that is a very personal decision.

My ex threw it at me that i talked to our lawyer the year
Before we separated. Like i was the one bringing on the
Divorce and he also told me i did not like him and had not
For a very long time.

He had a very strange way of looking at the facts in my opinion
As he was pursuing women. HUGS