Is he trying to be helpful? Wow.

*adds notation to Men are Strange file*

Uh, that's kind of ridiculous isn't it?

Tell him he has to work out, too. Join a gym together or something.

He wants me to get more active.....The more active I get the more I hurt......I weigh 196......I am about ready to give up and let him have his damn divorce.....

Only some men are strange, loulou x

Don't let him control you. Are you on SSI? Maybe he needs to come to a counciling meeting with you. Educate him a little on why your not able to work. It may help?

Get more active or we'll divorce? That's messed up, princess. He's being a dick.

And we all thought dick was good.

You might remind him of
FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE
FOR RICHER OR POORER
IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH
(is he provideing plenty of "richer?")
Your weight is a Bipolar side effect of meds,as is your feeling sluggish..have him talk to your Pdoc,if he's not buying those facts.

I say leave him.

My soon to be ex-husband and i had it out over my job. I was told to quit or he would file for divorce. I filled out the papers and left them on the kitchen table for him. Then I packed my bags and moved out. I would not let him control me. He wanted me to be his sick wife, stay at home, go to therapy, and take my meds. He wanted someone to take care of. He would get upset if I would do housework. For me he was not worth it.

I am sorry if this sounds a little harsh.

I understand that he's being a dick......He needs to understand with my mitral valve prolapse and illnesses I can only do so much.....But he won't he's telling me I have to get more active or he's gonna divorce me. Sounds lame......I wonder if he would even do what he claims.....my friend says he's just trying to blow smoke up my ass......I am trying to loose weight but it's harder to loose it than it is to gain it.....

You are computer game fan..have you tried that wi active thingie (I don't know jack about computer game world)..hear it's fun, though?

You have the right to be harsh.

can't afford the wii right now.....I want it so bad......I wish the hubby would have bought that instead of a xbox 360. Getting a wii is on my to do list if I get more money or if I win my SSI case.....

With your probs you should be able to apply for SSDI...would that make him happy? He sounds like my first husband, a real dickhead.