Cant believe this has so many posts!
Clean your house
Give him a wink and a smile.... it will do wonders for your marriage.

BPP go ahead and try the clean house/good meal routine for a couple of weeks and see if it does any good.

I did it for 3 weeks...............and absolutely nada...............

Even dressed up all cute for date night.............. he took my daughter out instead.

It doesn't always work, but is worth a shot..................(sigh)

I am not sure I love mine anymore either. I am headed for a divorce.

I can understand staying. Right now I am staying for financial reasons. But I will get my social network set up. I will contact lawyers. I am moving gradually; I don't know if I can do a FT job..........especially with raising the kids.

I am trying to get stable on meds........... not yet. Not yet. I hear of the right coctail..............but I am still waiting.

Besides I would hope the marriage would work. I didn't marry to get a divorce............................

Yours calls you names................... mine ignores me............. he is up to 9 days as his record.................My house is tense. I am here pretty much all day with the kids. I often leave in the evenings........... Yesterday I took the little ones with my to a church picnic. The middle child and I have been shopping a lot for school in the evening.

He asked me after a full week of me ducking out if I was mad. I have been mad for 2 1/2 months for moving and not allowing me to talk about BP for about 2 years........................(sigh)

I told him that I was mad about the move and the gag order.

I do not feel I have a marriage. I took off my wedding ring and do not plan to put it back on until I have a marriage. Right now I have a living arrangement.

15 years of a pretty good relationship; 5 years of not a good relationship......................

I have read hundreds of books on how to make a marriage better. Now I am starting to read books on divorce. It is overwhelming.

My New Year's resolution was a better relationship with my hubby. It doesn't look like it will happen. It takes two to make a relationship work....................he won't go to counseling. He runs over any boundaries I try to put down.

Our home should sell on Thurs. I hope they put the check in both of our names. I hope so. If so.............I will make my stand right there............ it is 40,000 profit. That would make 20,000 for me and 20,000 for him. That would be a good amount to start over with........................

sorry so long.

message me if you want.

But I am hoping he will respond to the others advice. Worth a shot................(sigh)

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Bravo Princess!

You have ensnared us in your web of deceit and manipulation yet AGAIN!!

You are a maestro conducting a symphony of woe and misery.

I know I am just tingling with excitement for tomorrows update. Why it could be anything! T.V. on the fritz! Missing socks -- that is assuming your ogre of a husband insists you do the laundry. No more Lucky Charms!

Wow! The dramatic entanglement possibilities are limitless!

This is why I dont bother getting cable T.V. -- you cant beat Princess for a good -- though decidedly odd -- story line!!


OH CRAP!!

I have been stuck in the widows web! And I am now reply #64!!

Make that #65!!

God forbid anyone who is suicidal not get the help they need because this "character" decided to post again. Do us all a favor and refrain from posting, OK?