Wow, you really just don't get it do you??? This has become very humorous...

I do Oz...you got some boiling water in a pot? I can turn it into alphebet soup! ;o)

Tour, you sounded very camp , then ? haha
Did you have yr hands on yr hips too ?

Lol, camp?

You would think if starting a housewife group this topic would be in there....hmmmm......Guess she:s airing her dirty laundry in here...as usual, but being a mere housewife and all, of course....

Oh woe it meeeeee...............for not finding MY CONTACT!!! Can't see outa one eye and blind now in the other!!!!! But i make a mean roman numeral soup!

i was woundering if you really are that dense, childish, etc....i think what you really need is to grow up. start acting like an adult and stop these stupid posts.

being married and having kids was your choice so suck it up, he works makes the money. you can clean house and cook, then play your wii, or what ever you want. marrage is a 50/50 thing. we give and take.

i have been married for 24years and he doesnt tell me i look nice every day it is not nessasary to do so and should not be expected either.

marrage should be based on respect, love, trust.etc...not about who cleans,cooks,etc...

oh god this is the bigest train wreck of all....

Yes, I do Oz, when I'm not shaking my brush! ;oP Hands on my hips and one eyebrow raised...heh heh

The reason I'm squinting is because I CAN'T FIND MY CONTACT!!

I'm sorry but I disagree...I think BP does need help, but she doesn't listen to, or use common sense. She wants her cake, but doesn't feel like she should have to cook it. She resists the very simple requests of her husband to do her part and to take care of anyone else...even something as simple as feeding the children, seems to m ake her think she is enslaved.......Yak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

good for you BP! Sounds very positive!

Princess won't see this because she has me on ignore, BUT I have to agree with Mark. I think she desperately needs help and is crying out here, but either doesn't know how to take the suggestions and get out of her current situation or really doesn't want out and is just talking for the attention-which she is obviously getting here.

Princess... how about this. Clean your house from top to bottom one day, trust me it can be done. Plan to make a nice dinner and put some thought into it, Get all of your laundry done, and when he gets home he will realize that you have really worked hard all day long like he does. Getting your house tidied up makes you feel alot better too. And once you have it all clean it makes cleaning it again very simple. Just do this and keep it up and I promise you that he will start to change. Cause the way you keep your house while you are married will effect your relationship. If its clean it can give out a very calming effect, but if its dirty, nothing gets done, and food isnt being prepared every night then it can cause alot of stress between the two of you. Also alot of recentment on his part. Which could explain some of the reasons for his actions. Just try and do this and it may change the way he looks at things. Good luck

Good advice two sides

Princess-how bout this.......I will come over and help you clean your house and then you can come to my house and help me!! How's that?? WARNING: I will not be responsible for anything should you get lost in my house. ;)

Two, I have ignored posting on this all day to not feed the drama, but you hit the nail on the head without putting her down. If she doesn't try that for at least a week, bipolar or not, struggling through every effort, if in depression, even (I have), she could care less about her life or her family, or what any of us have to say to her here.

yes 2 sides....very good advice. BPP if you are still there and watching....read the post by 2sides VERY CAREFULLY....and do it for 1 month....I agree that he will be a completely different person. 3 cheers for 2sides!!! HIP HIP HOORAY!!